You’re cute, you’re hot, you’re sexy, you’re fun, you have a cool personality and a big circle of friends — in other words, you’re the whole package. Then why the hell can’t you meet a guy? Maybe it’s because you have a stale routine.
Step 1 – Venture Out
There are plenty of good men in this world, you just need to create opportunities to meet them. Venture out from simply flirting at the same gym or bars, and introduce yourself to new activities where single men are likely to be.
Tip: Break out of your comfort zone and head down to a convention for Star Wars junkies or game night at the local sports bar. These places attract amazing amounts of testosterone, which increases your chances of meeting that ever-elusive critter, the single male.
Step 2 – Catch His Attention
The goal is to show him you’re available without throwing yourself at him. Sexy yet subtle signs can work wonders. A little smile, a glance in his direction, and a friendly touch like placing your hand on his forearm is usually more than enough to cue a guy that you’re interested.
Tip: When you’re out partying, avoid staying in a pack which makes you unapproachable. Men have a great fear of being rejected, and an even bigger fear of rejection in front of others. Take a step away from your overprotective posse waiting to give him the once-over, and work different parts of the room on your own. Flying solo will make you much more approachable. To be on the safe side, be sure to have a rendezvous point with the girls you came with.
Step 3 – The Chase
The key is for him to suspect you’re interested, without knowing for sure. Men love a chase, so give it to them!
Tip: Never make yourself too available. Although he’s a welcome addition into your life, you need to make it clear that you’re independent and still have friends to attend to. That means your date with the girls this Friday night is still on!
Step 4 – Don’t Forget Who You Are
Guys want an independent woman that has a life of their own. Ladies, this means take care of yourself, pay attention to your personal style and find time to hang with your fabulous friends and family.
Tip: No man wants a girl that doubles as a shadow. It’s suffocating, and is a surefire way that’ll get you kicked to the curb.
Step 5 – Together Forever
Men want a woman who’s positive, upbeat, and simple blast to be around.
Tip: Although there are different things that make men happy — when all is said and done, and the honeymoon stage on cloud nine has past, all men really want is love… and maybe a bit of sugar too!