Comments on: Are You Someone’s Shadow? http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/ Fashion and Lifestyle Since 1997 Tue, 14 Feb 2012 03:25:00 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: TeaAndWhimsy http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/comment-page-1/#comment-98797 TeaAndWhimsy Sun, 16 Sep 2007 21:56:08 +0000 http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/#comment-98797 Self-assessment! It certainly does pay to associate and network with in the right circle of people, but you need to self-assess to get out of that shadow! Learning includes learning about yourself - ask your closest friends and family for constructive feedback - read self-improvement books and articles and blogs!!! Learning also includes listening and watching for responses - the easiest way to know how to "make sure your wit is drawing attention and not your obnoxious behavior" is to gauge the types of responses you're receiving. The giveaway is when people do the forced laughter then walk-away! Self-assessment! It certainly does pay to associate and network with in the right circle of people, but you need to self-assess to get out of that shadow! Learning includes learning about yourself – ask your closest friends and family for constructive feedback – read self-improvement books and articles and blogs!!! Learning also includes listening and watching for responses – the easiest way to know how to “make sure your wit is drawing attention and not your obnoxious behavior” is to gauge the types of responses you’re receiving. The giveaway is when people do the forced laughter then walk-away!

]]> By: Poppy http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/comment-page-1/#comment-98589 Poppy Sat, 15 Sep 2007 21:19:45 +0000 http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/#comment-98589 I guess you true you pick up attributes of those you spend time with, but eventually of course you'll have to stand on your own 2 feet-just hanging out with someone is obvuisly not going to make youo successful. I guess you true you pick up attributes of those you spend time with, but eventually of course you’ll have to stand on your own 2 feet-just hanging out with someone is obvuisly not going to make youo successful.

]]> By: David http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/comment-page-1/#comment-98000 David Fri, 14 Sep 2007 01:25:40 +0000 http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/#comment-98000 A great place to know someone is a social clubs There's is a social club here in Toronto called the Granite Club, where they have all sorts of gatherings, sports to dining, and recreation to just plain chatting. It's a bit of an expense but here, its a very good opportunity to know some of the very big people in Toronto. If you can't find a social club, parties are always another place of opportunity to network and associate yourself. A great place to know someone is a social clubs There’s is a social club here in Toronto called the Granite Club, where they have all sorts of gatherings, sports to dining, and recreation to just plain chatting. It’s a bit of an expense but here, its a very good opportunity to know some of the very big people in Toronto. If you can’t find a social club, parties are always another place of opportunity to network and associate yourself.

]]> By: Dexter Kanuto http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/comment-page-1/#comment-97746 Dexter Kanuto Thu, 13 Sep 2007 08:42:12 +0000 http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/#comment-97746 I believe in the bold and the brave is favored by all. I believe in the bold and the brave is favored by all.

]]> By: AllaN http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/comment-page-1/#comment-97663 AllaN Thu, 13 Sep 2007 01:12:46 +0000 http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/#comment-97663 Network is very important. Having those connections will really come in handy for those situations where you just can't pull it off yourself. Standing out is very important as well and to get discovered, networking and assosiation is what you need to get noticed. The tips can be applied to everyone, I mean.. start early, get popular in high school, get to know everyone around you, cause you never know, chances are, there can be a few that make it big in their lifetimes. -AllaN Network is very important. Having those connections will really come in handy for those situations where you just can’t pull it off yourself. Standing out is very important as well and to get discovered, networking and assosiation is what you need to get noticed. The tips can be applied to everyone, I mean.. start early, get popular in high school, get to know everyone around you, cause you never know, chances are, there can be a few that make it big in their lifetimes.
-AllaN

]]> By: BEAUTYY http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/comment-page-1/#comment-97627 BEAUTYY Wed, 12 Sep 2007 22:24:12 +0000 http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/#comment-97627 I personally don't think 'leeching' onto someone is a great idea, it may help but it's the suckers way to gain popularity and you don't truly achieve anything. That person you're 'leeching' onto are well known for a reason whether it be his personality, charisma or sense of humour. Don't be the hero's sidekick, be the hero. Develop your own confidence to get into a group and socialize. Join clubs, sports, social events and just get out there. Shake hands and introduce yourself to those around you that you are not familiar with and catch up with those whom you are. If someone's shadowing you in a particular group or circle of friends, get out of there, meet new people and create your own circle that you can dominate yourself. Be bold! I personally don’t think ‘leeching’ onto someone is a great idea, it may help but it’s the suckers way to gain popularity and you don’t truly achieve anything. That person you’re ‘leeching’ onto are well known for a reason whether it be his personality, charisma or sense of humour. Don’t be the hero’s sidekick, be the hero. Develop your own confidence to get into a group and socialize. Join clubs, sports, social events and just get out there. Shake hands and introduce yourself to those around you that you are not familiar with and catch up with those whom you are.

If someone’s shadowing you in a particular group or circle of friends, get out of there, meet new people and create your own circle that you can dominate yourself. Be bold!

]]> By: Lenka http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/comment-page-1/#comment-97610 Lenka Wed, 12 Sep 2007 18:42:40 +0000 http://www.kineda.com/are-you-someones-shadow/#comment-97610 I think i do this kind of shadow to one of my best friends. I think i do this kind of shadow to one of my best friends.

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