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May 4, 2007

Top 10 Breakup Songs to Get Over Your Ex-Boyfriend

Kelly Clarkson

Just broke up with that loser/bastard/(place the jerk description word of choice here) ex-boyfriend of yours? It’s time to vent out your anger and get over how he wronged you. Forget all the sad, lovey dovey, and mushy I miss you songs.

Pop these women empowering songs into your favorite player and rock to being strong and independent.

#10 – My Happy Ending by Avril Lavigne

Favorite Lines:

You’ve got your dumb friends
I know what they say
They tell you I’m difficult
But so are they
But they don’t know me
Do they even know you?
All the things you hide from me
All the shit that you do

#9 – Don’t Bother by Shakira

Favorite Lines:

So don’t bother
I won’t die of deception
I promise you won’t ever see me cry
Don’t feel sorry

#8 – Get Out (Leave) – JoJo

Favorite Lines:

Get Out (leave) right now,
it’s the end of you and me,
It’s too late (now) and I cant wait for you to be gone,
cause I know about her, (who) and I wonder (why),
how I bought all the lies.
You said that you would treat me right
but you was just a waste of time. (waste of time)

#7 – Ain’t It Funny – Jennifer Lopez

Favorite Lines:

It’s been awhile since you came around
Now ya wanna see what’s goin’ down
Tryin’ to tell me why ya want my time
Tryin’ to tell me how I’m on your mind
See it never had to be this way
You should of never played the games you played
Now I’m seein’ that you’re kinda lame
Knowin how the situation change

#6 – Not Goin’ Cry – Mary J. Blige

Favorite Lines:

I was your lover and your secretary
Working every day of the week
Was at the job when no one else was there
Helping you get on your feet
Eleven years of sacrifice
And you can leave at the drop of a dime
Swallowed my fears, stood by your side
I shoulda left your ass a thousand times

#5 – Over It – Katharine McPhee

Favorite Lines:

Movin’ on, it’s my time
You never were a friend of mine
Hurt at first, a little bit
But now I’m so over
So over it
I’m so over it

#4 – Survivor – Destiny’s Child

Favorite Lines:

Thought I couldn’t breathe without you,
I’m inhalin’
You thought I couldn’t see without you,
Perfect vision,
You thought I couldn’t last without ya,
But I’m lastin’
You thought that I would die without ya,
But I’m livin’
Thought that I would fail without ya,
But I’m on top,
Though it would be over by now,
But it won’t stop,
You thought that I would self-destruct,
But I’m still here,
Even in my years to come,
I’m still gon’ be here.

#3 – Irreplaceable – Beyonce

Favorite Lines:

So since I�m not your everything
How about I’ll be nothing
Nothing at all to you
Baby I wont shead a tear for you
I won’t lose a wink of sleep
Cause the truth of the matter is
Replacing you is so easy

#2 – Since U Been Gone – Kelly Clarkson

Favorite Lines:

You had your chance, you blew it
Out of sight, out of mind
Shut your mouth, I just can’t take it
Again and again and again and again
But since you been gone
I can breathe for the first time
I’m so movin’ on, yeah, yeah
Thanks to you, now I get, I get what I want
Since you been gone

#1 – I Will Survive – Gloria Gaynor

Favorite Lines:

Go on now go walk out the door
just turn around now
’cause you’re not welcome anymore
weren’t you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
you think I’d crumble
you think I’d lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive

Did I miss any of your favorite songs to get over that loser? If so, let me know!

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  • David

    I Will Survive is a classic, list is nice :D

  • http://members.asiantown.net/BEAUTYY BEAUTYY

    Try:
    Fefe Dobson – Bye Bye Boyfriend
    “It was fun but it couldn’t last forever
    Bye Bye pretty boy,friend
    it’s time to pack it up
    Baby ’cause it’s over now

    Carrie Underwood – Before He Cheats
    ” dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
    carved my name into his leather seats.
    I took a louisville slugger to both head lights,
    slashed a hole in all 4 tires.
    maybe next time he’ll think before he cheats.”

    Oh heck, Willa Ford – A Toast to Men (Best man hater song ever)

    “It was fun but it couldn’t last forever
    Bye Bye pretty boy,friend
    it’s time to pack it up
    Baby ’cause it’s over now”

    Yes, I’ve had my troubles with men T.T

  • yume

    Great list of songs! I’m gonna send this over to my girl friend who just broke up with some guy that cheated on her. :(

  • allgood

    no Valerie Simpson – silly wasn’t I?

  • sirbutterroll

    no Ben Folds Five – Song For The Dumped?

    Give me my money back,
    Give me my money back,
    You bitch!

  • AllaN

    Very nice list hahaahaha, im glad Gloria Gaynor’s I Will Survive was included, makes the list seem more mixed

  • phanguy

    there should be a list for guys too!

  • allgood

    guys dont listen to songs about getting dumped. they write them.

  • http://www.erapo.szm.sk Lenka

    “pussy cat dolls – i don’t need a man”

  • niivek

    trust company – stronger

    hahaha, not a break up song but good song none the less :D

  • duperpok

    I had a friend call to tell of her breakup with a boyfriend an hour ago. What a coincidence.. Not sure if I should tell her about the songs though. Some girls get mad, others despair and break down.

    If I may, “You’ve got a friend” by James Taylor probably is a helpful song in these testing times.

  • razi

    Since u been gone is perfect when you want to just shout your frustrations! Trust me I know… When my sister broke up with her bf, she couldn’t stop blasting that song!!! :D

  • vm3z9

    i think linkin park should go on the list, you can just let it all go in one song.

  • http://www.kineda.com Terry Ng

    Unfortunately, Linkin Park isn’t made up of female singers. ;)

  • glimmerish

    Add to the list:
    These Boots Are Made For Walking – Nancy Sinatra

  • David

    I’m pretty down with the fact that Kineda could have more top-10 list, good to see where all the good taste in music comes from. :)

  • virgo

    “Don’t Stay”……LInkin Park…..nothing unfortunate about it.

  • Dexter Kanuto

    I also consider I WILL SURVIVE since it came in first place.

  • obiswill

    Song number six has wrong title and singer. Title song is Don’t Speak – by No Doubt. ;) MJB is more mellow.

  • haz

    can’t beat a classic like ‘i will survive

  • allgood
  • jewely11115

    You can’t forget You Outta know by Alanis Morressette!!

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    How about “Don’t Look Back” by Boston?

  • AnotherName4me

    “Gone Forever” by Three Days Grace
    I don’t care if it was written by guys… it’s in my opinion, one of the best songs to get over anyone.. guy or girl… great lyrics

    “I feel so much better
    Now that you’re gone forever
    I tell myself that i don’t miss you at all
    I’m not lying, denying that i feel so much better
    Now that you’re gone forever”

    “First time you screamed at me
    I should have made you leave
    I should have known it could be so much better
    I hope you’re missing me
    I hope I’ve made you see
    That I’m gone forever”

    omg it’s such a good song! takes away all heartache and frustrations.

    and then another… not as good… but still good

    “Never Again” by Kelly Clarkson

    “Does it hurt
    to know I’ll never be there
    Bet it sucks
    to see my face everywhere
    It was you
    who chose to end it like you did
    I was the last to know
    you knew
    exactly what you would do
    And don’t say
    you simply lost your way
    She may believe you
    but I never will
    never again”

    ahhh now the list is perfect =)

  • zzoomgirl

    This is an oldy but this one has given me great inspiration to keep going.

    Time for me to fly REO Speedwagon

    I’ve been around for you
    I’ve been up and down for you
    But I just gan’t get any relief
    I’ve swallowed my pride for you
    Buy you still make me feel like a thief

    You go me stealin’ your love away
    ‘Cause you never give it
    Peeling the years away
    And we can’t relive it
    Oh I make you live
    And you make me cry
    I believe it’s time for me to fly

  • mandiicandii

    Try the song As If by Blaque. It is an amazing songs for getting over the guy that broke your heart.

  • jmopikokew

    What about the song…….”there you go” by PINK!

    Please dont come around
    Talkin bout that you love me
    cause you loved those b****s before me
    I dont wanna hear that you adore me
    And I know that all youre doin
    Is playin your mind games
    Dont you know that game beats game
    So your best bet is to be straight wit me

    So you say you wanna talk, lets talk
    If you wont talk, Ill walk
    Yeah its like that
    I got a new man, hes waitin out back
    Now what do you think about that
    And when I say Im through, Im through
    So basically Im through wit you
    Whatcha wanna say?
    Had to have it your way, had to play games
    Now youre beggin me to stay

    Now this is a awesome song for all those mind game players….. like there is more f***ing fish in the sea man, life goes on!!!

  • madiandcliff

    amazing son list.

    jordyn taylor- stong is another good one.

    “Ohh i dont need you anymore;
    and don’t you know, that

    You, were the one that made me strong;
    you made me stand up on my own,
    with every cruel intention, you helped me find my
    independence.

    yeah it’s all because of you,
    that i have the strength i do,
    to turn my pain to passion, instead of crashin’.
    Boy i’m thankin’ you. Boy i’m thankin’ you.

    Thinking back on how you changed me,
    everytime, you tried to put me down.
    even though you really hurt me,
    underneath, myself is what i found.
    so take a look inside these eyes now,
    and say the things you want to say to me.
    cuz i’ve already spread my wings out;
    and your the one, the one who set me free.”

  • Lizza

    Leave- Matchbox Twenty
    Yes they maybe a little lame but good sond to get you very depressed.
    Im not saying there wasnt nothing wrong
    I just didnt think youd ever get tired of me
    Im now saying we ever had the right to hold on
    I just didnt wanna let it get away from me

    But if thats how its gonna leave
    Straight out from underneath
    Then well see whos sorry now
    If thats how its gonna stand, when
    You know youve been depending on
    The one youre leaving now
    The one youre leaving out

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  • vesnicka

    You have to add “Fighter” by Christina Aguliera because it’s about liers and loosers in general not just cheaters since not all break ups are due to cheating.

    After all of the fights and the lies
    Yes you wanted to harm me but that won’t work anymore
    Uh, no more, oh no, it’s over
    ‘Cause if it wasn’t for all of your torture
    I wouldn’t know how to be this way now, and never back down
    So I wanna say thank you

    ‘Cause it makes me that much stronger
    Makes me work a little bit harder
    Makes me that much wiser
    So thanks for making me a fighter
    Made me learn a little bit faster
    Made my skin a little bit thicker
    It makes me that much smarter
    So thanks for making me a fighter

    Also “Me, myself and I” by Beyonce
    ME, MYSELF AND I
    THATS ALL I GOT IN THE END
    THATS WHAT I FOUND OUT
    AND IT AINT NO NEED TO CRY
    I TOOK A VOW THAT FROM NOW ON
    I’M GON’NA BE MY OWN BEST FRIEND

    I GOT ME, MYSELF AND I
    I KNOW THAT I WILL NEVER DISAPOINT MYSELF
    My eyes HAVE CRIED A THOUSAND TIMES
    ALL THE LADIES IF YOU FEEL ME HELP ME SING IT OUT
    I CAN’T REGRET TIME SPENT WITH YOU
    YEAH YOU HURT ME BUT I LEARNED A LOT ALONG THE WAY
    IT’S HOW I LEARNED TO MAKE IT THROUGH
    AFTER ALL THE RAIN YOU SEE THE SUN COME OUT AGAIN

    Great songs

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    ****NO DOUBT “DON’T SPEAK” makes me cry and i refuse to listen to it for that reason. every verse of that song applies to all jerky boyfriends…

    ****NO DOUBT “EX-GRILFRIEND”
    =i kinda always knew i’d end up your ex-girlfriend
    i hope i hold a special place with the rest of them
    and you know it makes me sick to be on that list
    but i shoulda thought of that before we kissed…

    ****NO DOUBT “DETECTIVE”
    =peek in, sneak about i’m gonna snoop and call you out
    i caught you, your hands are red
    now im your broken hearted dectective

    hey lover why the gun? hold on i’m almost there
    it’s too late you’ve killed the trust
    dont act so unaware

    ****SHERYL CROW “IF IT MAKES YOU HAPPY”
    those two powerful lines…scream these at the top of your lungs ((preferably to his face))

    =if it makes you happy, it can’t be that bad
    if it makes you happy, then why the hell are you so sad?

    ****TRINA (f/christina milian) “SINGLE AGAIN”
    the entire song is the newly singles girls’ anthem

    =i’m single again. back on the prowl.
    thought it was perfect. i don’t know how
    i’m single again…

    stop callin me apologizin dont even start it
    hope u find wat ur lookin for back on the market
    lets agree to disagree dont explain shit to me,
    i got my own money there’s nobody i need
    i need my own space…

    hold up wait a goddamn minute
    it aint over til i say we finished
    til i get my half
    then i sit back and relax and just laugh ( ha! ha! ha!)

    ****MYA “MOVIN’ ON”
    =im so confused. i don’t know what to do.
    but i gotta be a woman. i gotta get over you…

    and your lyin’ ass been cheatin’ and i can’t take it no
    more
    i’ll be movin’ on…

    ((over all a great “just caught you cheating and i dont have time for your shit” song))

    ****MYA “CASE OF THE EX”
    =There’s no need to reminisce about the past
    obviously cause that shit did not last
    I know how a woman will try to game you
    so don’t get caught up because baby you’ll lose…

    ((okay so this is more of a “bitch why you tryna take whats minez” kinda song but this verse helps a break up too))

    ****MARIAH CAREY “SHAKE IT OFF”
    granted its not a scream your ass off kinda song, but its the best for those of us who are more mellow and cool, calm, and collected. every line from chorus to verse is relational.
    =(I gotta shake it off)
    ‘Cause the lovin’ ain’t the same, and you keep on playin’ games
    Like you know I’m here to stay
    (I gotta shake, shake it off)
    Just like the Calgon commercial I really got get up outta here
    And go somewhere
    (I gotta shake it off)
    Gotta make that move (Yeah), find somebody who appreciates all the love I give
    (Boy I gotta shake, shake it off)
    Gotta do what’s best for me (uh-huh)
    Baby and that means I gotta
    (Shake you off)

    By the time you get this message it’s gonna be too late
    So don’t bother pagin’ me ’cause I’ll be on my way
    See I packed up my diamonds and clothes,
    Just ask your mama she knows
    You’re gonna miss me baby hate to say I told you so

    Well at first I didn’t know but now it’s clear to me
    You would cheat with all ya freaks and lie compulsively
    So packed up my Louis Vuitton,
    Jump in your ride took off
    You’ll never ever find another girl who loves you more than me

    [chorus]
    I gotta shake it off
    ‘Cause the lovin’ ain’t the same, and you keep on playin’ games
    Like you know I’m here to stay
    (I gotta shake, shake it off)
    Just like the Calgon commercial I really got get up outta here
    And go somewhere
    (I gotta shake it off)
    Gotta make that move (uh-huh), find somebody who appreciates all the love I give
    (Boy I gotta shake, shake it off)
    Gotta do what’s best for me (Yeah)
    Baby and that means I gotta
    (Shake you off)

    I found out about a gang of ya dirty little deeds
    With this one and that one by the pool on the beach in the street heard ya’ll was-
    Hold up, my phone’s breakin’ up I’mma hang up and call the machine right back
    I gotta get this off of my mind

    You wasn’t worth my time so I’m leavin’ you behind
    ‘Cause I need a real love in my life
    Save this recording because, I’m never coming back home
    Baby I’m gone
    Don’t you know…(chorus)

    and then theres good old
    ****TONI BRAXTON “HE WASN’T MAN ENOUGH FOR ME”****

    ((title alone pretty much sums it all up))

    ^^^BLINK 182 “DAMMIT”
    more for the dudes but can also relate to girls i guess…in a weird Blink 182 kinda way lol

    =It’s alright / to tell me / what you think / about me
    I won’t try / to argue / or hold it / against you
    I know that / you’re leaving / you must have / your reasons
    The season / is calling / and your pictures / are falling down

    The steps that / I retrace / the sad look / on your face
    The timing / and structure / did you hear / he fucked her?
    A day late / a buck short / I’m writing / the report
    On losing / and failing / when I move / I’m flailing now

    and it’ll happen once again I’ll turn to a friend
    Someone that understands
    Sees through the master plan

    But everybody’s gone
    And I’ve been here for too long
    To face this on my own
    Well I guess this is growing up

    And maybe / I’ll see you / at a movie / sneak preview
    You’ll show up / and walk by / on the arm / of that guy
    And I’ll smile / and you’ll wave / we’ll pretend / it’s okay
    The charade / it won’t last / when he’s gone / I won’t come back

    And it’ll happen once again
    You’ll turn to a friend
    Someone that understands
    And sees through the master plan

    But everybody’s gone
    And you’ve been there for too long
    To face this on your own
    Well I guess this is growing up…

    ^^^NEW FOUND GLORY “MY FRIEND’S OVER YOU”
    there is a line in the infamous chorus that is debated but either one is applicable to a situation

    =you were everything i wanted
    but i just can’t finish what i started
    there’s no room left here on my back
    it was damaged long ago
    though you swear that you are true
    i still pick my friends over you
    OR
    i still think my friend’s over you

    ^^^SUBLIME “SANTERIA”
    okay i think it applies more as a mellow dramatic “i love you violently” kinda songs…
    FYI “sancho” is a mexican term to mean “that other guy” (often on the side) and “heina” pronounced HI-NAH is the mexican equivalent of “chick”

    =If I could find that heina and that sancho that shes found,
    Well Id pop a cap in sancho and Id slap her down…

    But my soul will have to wait till I get back and find heina of my own…

    Tell sanchito that if he knows what is good for him he best go run and hide.
    Daddys got a new .45.
    And I wont think twice to stick that barrel straight down sanchos throat.
    Believe me when I say that I got somethin for his punk ass…

    my iPod is filled with these kinda songs…but its okay

    well as you can tell i have had my share of heart breaks and frankly they annoyed the hell out of me but the songs produced by people in my situations made it a whole lot easier to get on and to get it on with someone new

    xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

    =

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    oh shit i forgot one and this one is the best ((in my opinion))

    ******** AMY WINEHOUSE “BACK TO BLACK” *******

    yeah its pretty depressing but great if your piss drunk (like amy must have been when she wrote this)

    =======He left no time to regret
    Kept his dick wet
    With his same old safe bet
    Me and my head high
    And my tears dry
    Get on without my guy
    You went back to what you knew
    So far removed from all that we went through
    And I tread a troubled track
    My odds are stacked
    I’ll go back to black

    We only said good-bye with words
    I died a hundred times
    You go back to her
    And I go back to…..

    I go back to us

    I love you much
    It’s not enough
    You love blow and I love puff
    And life is like a pipe
    And I’m a tiny penny rolling up the walls inside

    We only said goodbye with words
    I died a hundred times
    You go back to her
    And I go back to black….

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    its those first four lines in back to black that helped me get over this guy i was madly stupid in love with for almost 2 years

    and the sad thing is i was the safe bet…

    but still the same concept.

    he chose someone else and just walked out on me with no emotion whatsoever

    damn those lines burn like good tequila

    xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

  • tornadotoni

    Here’s my list….

    Ain’t It Funny (Murder Remix) – Jennifer Lopez Feat. Ja Rule
    Almost Doesn’t Count – Brandy
    At Least (The Little Things) – Kelly Price
    Better In Time – Leona Lewis
    Breakaway – Kelly Clarkson
    Bust Your Windows – Jazmine Sullivan
    Enough Cryin’ – Mary J. Blige
    Foolish – Ashanti
    Gotta Move On – Monica
    Hit ‘Em Up Style (Oops!) – Blu Cantrell
    I’m Gonna Be Alright – Jennifer Lopez
    I Bow Out – Whitney Houston
    (I Just Want It) To Be Over – Keyshia Cole
    I Learned From The Best – Whitney Houston
    I Will Survive – Chantay Savage version
    If You Love Me – Brownstone
    Irreplaceable – Beyoncé
    It’s Over Now – Deborah Cox
    Leave (Get Out) – JoJo
    Let It Go – Keyshia Cole
    Love Shoulda Brought You Home – Toni Braxton
    Me, Myself And I – Beyoncé
    Never Again – Kelly Clarkson
    No More Drama – Mary J. Blige
    No Way – Faith Evans
    Shake It Off – Mariah Carey
    Shoulda Let You Go – Keyshia Cole
    Since U Been Gone – Kelly Clarkson
    Single Ladies – Beyoncé
    There You Go – P!nk
    ‘Til You Do Me Right – After 7

  • amycheergirl101

    ooh!

    Gives you Hell by All american rejects.

    …When you see my face, hope it gives you hell, hope it gives you hell!

    …&truth be told i miss you…&truth be told, IM LYIN’!!

  • abynu38

    Trust Company -Falling Apart
    Great Song :)

  • ella_enchanted2011

    TRY GIVES YOU HELL BY THE ALL AMERICAN REJECTS…SUCH AN INSPIRING BREAKUP SONG

  • abi76

    I didnt read ALL the songs above, but I have to say that THE ROSELINE’s OVER YOU is the best… here is a snippet…
    “I will offer you my coffin, I wont be needing it now, I will close the lid and lock it,
    I will joke and smoke when you are in the ground,
    I am
    OVER YOU
    I am
    OVER YOU
    with your lowly views
    and you pride like
    cocaine attitude”

    This song helped me get passed a real “winner,” to say the least.

  • chic4o1

    a good one…that is HEALTHY too is lions and tigers and bears by jasmine sullivan

    “am I the only one who thinks its an impossible task;
    why it don’t last is that so much to ask
    why do we love love
    when love seem to hate us?

    Sorry if I sound so filled with gloom
    You say you care and I know you do
    But this is from my experience
    And my conclusion only makes sense
    Just cause I love you and you love me
    that doesnt meant that were meant to be
    I can climb mountains swim cross the seas
    but the most frightening thing is you and me
    ………………..
    Most Circumstances I know my fate
    But in this love thing i dont get the game
    Why does it feel like those who give in
    They only wind up losing a friend
    Just cause I love you and you love me
    It doesnt mean that we’ll ever be
    Fly cross the ocean sing for the queen
    But the most frightening thing is you and me

    ……………………………………………….
    Im not sure no
    But if we never try
    We’ll never know
    Its better to have loved
    Then not to loved at all
    Not trying is worse than to just stumble and fall
    And if we do
    i’d rather it be with you
    Cause at least there will be sweet memories”

    see the problem is that when we are in love we just see a one sided perception-life with that person. the thought of a breakup is not even worth mentioning because we are afraid.
    i love this song i hope you will too

    another HEALTHY one is “be happy” by mary j blidge (1990s)

    “how can i love somebody else
    when i cant love myself enough to know
    when its time; time to let go….”

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  • xsublimechicx

    Absolute best song for any girl who was with a guy who did nothing but take from you, your heart, and your soul…

    One – u2

    Is it getting better?
    Or do you feel the same?
    Will it make it easier on you now
    that you got someone to blame

    You say one love, one life
    Its the one you need in the night

    Yeah, one love
    We get to share it
    Leaves you babe if you dont care for it

    Did i disapoint you?
    Leave a bad taste in your mouth?
    You act like you never had love
    And you want me to go without

    Well its too late tonight,
    to drag the past out into the light
    We’re one, but were not the same
    We got to carry each other, carry each other
    One

    Have you come here for forgiveness?
    Have you come to raise the dead?
    Have you come here to play Jesus?
    To the leopards in your head..

    Did i ask too much?
    More than alot?
    You gave nothing now its all i got

    We’re one, but we’re not the same
    We’ll hurt each, and do it again
    And you say
    Love is a temple,
    Love, the higher law
    Love is a temple
    Love, the higher law

    You ask me to enter
    And then you make me crawl
    And i cant keep holding on to what you got
    When all you got is hurt…

  • mannyack

    Ok i have the one that will help you finally make that move outta the pain you might have to cry it out but here are the lyrics to ( I recommend the Avril because shes the original owner and the power of this song and the emotion is all hers)

    Avril Lavigne – Falling into history

    Don’t matter what people say
    I never did believe them
    I know, I know they know everything
    I’ll be alright by myself
    And no one’s gonna tell me I’m defined
    Confined by love

    Now our days seem strange
    I guess my heart was bound to change

    I fell out, out of you and me
    You’re fading from view
    And you’re falling into history
    I fell out, out of you and me
    You’re fading from view
    And you’re falling into history

    I never thought that I’d say
    That I don’t really miss you
    I lived, I breathed your breath through me
    Time has a way of passing by
    Until I don’t remember why or how to hurt for you

    Love’s pain has gone somewhere
    And I’m finally hanging it there

    I fell out, out of you and me
    You’re fading from view
    And you’re falling into history
    I fell out, out of you and me
    You’re fading from view
    And you’re falling into history

    Falling into, falling into, you’re falling into history, yeah
    Falling into, falling into, you’re falling into history

    I fell out, out of you and me
    You’re fading from view
    And you’re falling into history
    I fell out, out of you and me
    You’re fading from view
    And you’re falling into history

    I’ll be alright by myself
    And no one’s gonna tell me I’m defined
    Confined by love

  • gabby

    those are amazing songs and great for a break up.. but two songs i had that were big for my really bad break up were Let U Go by Ashley Parker Angel… it just fit perfectly with what we were going through.. and Never Again by Kelly Clarkson.. that was my angry song that i blasted and sang at the top of my lungs. haha. but yeah.. i’ll post the lyrics too.

    Let U Go lyrics

    Broken promises
    But you don’t really mind
    It’s not the first time
    And you know it, don’t you know
    Tell me why it is you only smile inside
    But when you break me into nothing
    Don’t you know

    It’s not like I haven’t tried
    Over and over again
    Stupid fights
    Wrong or right
    Goodbye…

    [Chorus:]
    I Remember when you came with me that night
    We said forever, that that you would never let me go
    But here I am again
    With nothing left inside
    No I don’t wanna but I gotta let you go

    You’re the one mistake
    I really didn’t mind
    So beautiful, unmercifully
    It took me down
    Too little and too late
    So now I know your kind
    You fake it easy, just to please me
    Don’t you know

    It’s not like we haven’t tried
    Over and over again
    Sleepless nights wrong or right
    Goodbye…

    [Chorus:]
    (slows down)

    I gotta let u go…
    It’s you…
    Theres nothing I can do

    I remember when you came with me that night
    You said forever [3x]

    Here I am again
    With nothing left inside
    No I don’t wanna but I gotta
    Let U Go

    [Chorus:]

    ——————————————–

    Never Again lyrics

    I hope the ring you gave to her
    Turns her finger green
    I hope when you’re in bed with her
    You think of me

    I would never wish bad things
    But I don’t wish you well
    Could you tell
    By the flames that burned your words?

    I never read your letter
    ‘Cause I knew what you’d say
    Give me that Sunday school answer
    Try and make it all okay

    Does it hurt
    To know I’ll never be there?
    Bet it sucks
    To see my face everywhere

    It was you
    Who chose to end it like you did
    I was the last to know

    You knew
    Exactly what you would do
    Don’t say
    You simply lost your way

    She may believe you
    But I never will
    Never again

    If she really knows the truth
    She deserves you
    A trophy wife, oh how cute

    Ignorance is bliss
    But when your day comes
    And he’s through with you
    And he’ll be through with you
    You’ll die together but alone

    You wrote me in a letter
    You couldn’t say it right to my face
    Well give me that Sunday school answer
    Repent yourself away

    Does it hurt
    To know I’ll never be there?
    Bet it sucks
    To see my face everywhere

    It was you
    Who chose to end it like you did
    I was the last to know

    You knew
    Exactly what you would do
    And don’t say
    You simply lost your way

    They may believe you
    But I never will
    Never again

    Never again will I hear you
    Never again will I miss you
    Never again will I fall to you
    Never

  • Talliejj

    My alltime favorite break up- songs are:

    Alanis Morissette – Uninvited
    Alanis Morissette – You oughta know<<<
    Addictive feat. Rakim – Truth Hurts
    Moby – Disco Lies<<
    Incubus – Have you ever
    Nirvana – Heart Shaped Box<<
    Barbara Streisand – Left in the dark <<<<
    Meat Loaf – Left in the dark
    Anouk – Nobody’s Wife<<
    Anouk – r u kiddin me
    Limp Bizkit – My Way<
    Beyonce ft. Shakira – Beautifull Liar
    Beyonce – Ring the Alarm
    Beyonce – Irreplaceble
    Beyonce – Broken hearted girl
    Justin Timberlake – what goes around, comes around
    Rage against the machine – Killing in the name
    The Prodigy – No Good<<
    No Doubt – Ex-Girlfriend
    Evanescence – Call me when your sober
    Evanescence – My Immortal
    All Saints – Never Ever
    All Saints – Bootie Call
    Kelly Clarkson – Since uve been gone
    Linkin Park – By Myself
    Linkin Park – Don’t Stay <<
    Linkin Park – Forgotten
    David Guetta – Love is gone
    Skunk Anansie – Weak <<<
    Skunk Anansie – Hedonism <<
    Kurupt – Its Over
    Flashdance – Deep Dish <<<
    Kelis- Caught Out There
    Eminem – Kim <<<
    Eminem – Kill you
    TLC – Scrubs
    Rave Nation – Going Crazy
    20 fingers – short dick man <<<
    Crazy Town – Drowning
    Lenny Kravitz – American Woman
    Shakira – illegal

  • lauraCate88

    Alkaline trio- Stupid Kid

    “Remember when i said i loved you well…I take it back,
    I was just a stupid kid back then,
    I take back every word that i said”

    Kinda says it all!!!!

  • softball109

    forget you–LAX
    best days of your life–kellie pickler (whole song amazing)
    you’re not sorry–taylor swift
    goodbye–kristinia debarge
    you’ll only make it worse–new years day (whole song amazing)
    forever and always–taylor swift

  • meccablong

    OK what happened to Melissa Etheridge- “Somebody Bring me Some Water”? That’s a good one. Also Alannis Morrisette- “You Oughta Know”!

  • horses_rox08

    I Won’t Apologize- Selena Gomez

  • mandz21

    It’s Alright, It’s Okay – Ashley Tisdale
    I Can Do Better – Avril Lavigne
    Who’s Got Your Money – Tina Parol
    Picture to Burn – Taylor Swift
    Without You – Hinder
    Shattered Glass – Britney Spears
    In Repair – John Mayer
    Silly Boy – Rihanna and Lady GaGa
    It Takes More – Jordin Sparks
    Strange – Reba McEntire
    Hush Hush – Pussycat Dolls
    Red High Heels – Kellie Pickler
    Hate (I Really Don’t Like You) – Plain White T’s
    One Day You Will – Lady Antebellum
    Hey – Mitchel Musso
    Cry Me A River – Michael Buble
    White Liar – Miranda Lambert

  • ash

    One of my favourite songs and perfect when your mad at someone:

    U+ur hand by P!nk
    Here’s some lyrics:

    Check it out, going out on the late night
    Looking tight, feeling nice, it’s a cock fight
    I can tell i just know that it’s going down, tonight

    At the door we don’t wait ’cause we know them
    At the bar, six shots just beginning
    That’s when dickhead puts his hand on me, but you see

    I’m not here for your entertainment
    You don’t really want to mess with me tonight
    Just stop and take a second
    I was fine before you walked into my life

    ‘Cause you know it’s over
    Before it began
    Kepp your drink just give me the money
    It’s just u + ur hand tonight.

    Pink just rocks. Her songs are like therapy.

  • khanlin

    “SINGLE AGAIN” by Trina she kills it and i love how she’s not talking about how much he hurt her but how she’s so real with it. she doesnt need him. she can get whoever she wants!!!!

    You know how they do, how they act
    See you with another man and they want you back
    My ass still fat
    they still checking for me,
    and never will you find another bitch like me,
    and I don’t care what yourfriends say
    what we had was like Jay and Beyonce.
    Or was it all a dream.

    Let’s agree to disagree, don’t explain shit to me
    I got my own money, there’s nobody I need I need I need my own space

  • Myronisa

    Kinda going through this problem now myself.

    Strangely enough musicals are keeping me happy. Particularly the re-made Hairspray songs, which are bubbly and happy.

    Hairspray – You Can’t Stop The Beat.

    Madonna – Hung Up: helps too

    Here: an extract of which is helping me atm.

    Every little thing that you say or do
    I’m hung up
    I’m hung up on you
    Waiting for your call
    baby night and day
    I’m fed up
    I’m tired of waiting on you

    Ring, ring, ring goes the telephone
    The lights are on but there’s no-one home
    Tick tick tock it’s a quarter to two
    And I’m done
    I’m hangin’ up on you

    I can’t keep on waiting for you
    I know that you’re still hesitating
    Don’t cry for me
    ’cause I’ll find my way
    You’ll wake up one day
    But it’ll be too late.

  • lala4lifeee1231

    try i look so good without you by jesse james…the best breakup song!!

  • missmuffinhead

    nah nah nah nah hey hey good bye — the steam

  • carrie

    im sick of evertime i fall 4 a guy he hurts me when i truley care 4 them im soo sick of it soo bye bye chad cuz ur not mii happy ending & im not gunna let u make me cry eneymore have fun with the bitch that cud never of loved u as much as me but shes tha only one now !!!!!!!!!!! =)

  • Abril

    Some time ago i tried this one: Blue Eyes Blue (Eric Clapton), so sweet but hard, at least it could express all i felt when a mthrfckr told me to give him a 2nd chance and i accepeted but then he left me again saying i’m not enough, he looked for me to give him another chance again!!!!!!! but now no more songs, just middle finger!! asss—le!!!
    Good luck grils!

  • lilypad

    F.U. Right Back by Frankee

    Oh oh
    Oooh
    No no no

    (You know there is two sides to every story)

    See I don’t know why you cryin’ like a bitch
    Talkin’ shit like a snitch
    Why you write a song ’bout me
    If you really didn’t care
    You wouldn’t wanna share
    Tellin’ everybody just how you feel

    Fuck what I did was your fault somehow
    Fuck the presents, I threw all that shit out
    Fuck all the cryin’ it didn’t mean jack
    Well guess what yo, fuck you right back

    Fuck what I did was your fault somehow
    Fuck the presents, I threw all that shit out
    Fuck all the cryin’ it didn’t mean jack
    Well guess what yo, fuck you right back

    You thought you could really make me moan
    I had better sex all alone (ha ha ha ha)
    I had to turn to your friend
    Now you want me to come back
    You must be smokin’ crack
    Im goin’ else where and thats a fact

    Fuck all those nights I moaned real loud
    Fuck it, I faked it, aren’t you proud
    Fuck all those nights you thought you broke my back
    Well guess what yo, your sex was wack

    Fuck all those nights I moaned real loud
    Fuck it, I faked it, aren’t you proud
    Fuck all those nights you thought you broke my back
    Well guess what yo, your sex was wack

    Whoa whoa
    Uh uh yea

    Whoa whoa
    Uh uh yea

    Whoa whoa
    Uh uh yea

    Whoa whoa
    Uh uh yea

    You questioned did I care
    Maybe I would have if you woulda gone down there
    Now it’s over
    But I do admit i’m glad I didn’t catch your crabs
    I can’t sweat that cause I got to go

    Fuck what I did was your fault somehow
    Fuck the presents, I threw all that shit out
    Fuck all the cryin’ it didn’t mean jack
    Well guess what yo, fuck you right back.

    oh oh
    uh uh yea
    oh oh
    uh uh yea
    oh oh
    uh uh yea
    oh oh
    uh uh yea

    You made me do this

  • Megs

    Fallout Boy- Thanks for the Memories is a great song for when you’re angry.

  • S95

    Already gone by kelly clarkson and over you by daughtry really help :)

  • jhay

    My ex girlfriend broke up with me cus I cheated on her, I found this great website called saveabreakup.com , I followed all the instructions on it and it helped me get back with my ex, now we’ve been together for almost 2 years. :)

  • x|3

    Did it accually work ? i am only 15 i dnt have the money to get the book , but i juss wanna know . :/

  • Meer,,

    my ultimate love song is:” sometimes love just aint enough” from Patty Smithe and Don Henley watch on youtube.
    xxx M

  • Meer,,

    my ultimate love song is:” sometimes love just aint enough” from Patty Smithe and Don Henley watch on youtube.
    xxx M

  • fuckboys

    best son is … so sick – Ne yo

  • fuckboys

    And I’m so sick of love songs
    So tired of tears
    So done with wishing you were still here
    Said I’m so sick of love songs so sad and slow
    So why can’t I turn off the radio?

    Gotta fix that calender I have
    That’s marked July 15th
    Because since there’s no more you
    There’s no more anniversary
    I’m so fed up with my thoughts of you
    And your memory
    And how every song reminds me
    Of what used to be

  • Tokiogirl526

    its been a tough weekend. im a freshmen and my one month bf dumped me @ a football game on friday. my friends r all pulling thru 4 me. i’ve been listening 2 les miserables a lot but as far as true break up songs try listening 2 false pretense by red jumpsuit apparatus, until the day i die by story of the year and louiboutons (sry if i misspelled that) by jennifer lopez. these might be more guy break-up songs but i think they could work 2: mr brightside by the killers, just a dream by nelly, whatsername by green day (my ex- ‘s fav song :( and this one is just becuz we all need a break from the saddness and anger, weightless by all time low. becuz this totally has not been my weekend. good luck 2 all of y’all out there and don’t give up on love.

  • mssingkyle

    oh and check out someone wake me up by the veronicas.

  • Courtneyboyson

    dudeee…. no website can save a relationship its the determination love and compassion between the two of you that saved it,…. dont fuck up again

  • Kdn

    U’ll think of me..Keith Urban! ♥

  • Steve221

    That’s not true at all! yes this does work.. it also worked for me :)

  • Samjohnson23

    yes it works :)

  • Lee-lee

    yes it is just SOOOO inspiring.

  • Mandii

    Goodbye to you – Michelle Branch

  • Logansmama

    Archive- F’ you.

    BEST SONG EVER!!

  • Mahnoorsadaqat

    fuck off rascal…motha fucker, slut, bitch, daawg, asshole…

  • 3roken

    Esmee Denters- outta here

    Get me out of here
    coz my eyes are burning from these silly tears
    that you brought when you showed me you dont really care
    when you never loved me
    someone get me out of this place
    right now

    its so amazing how you have so many fazes
    and you are not that person
    i thought that i had fell so deep in love with
    you changed up you makeup your DNA
    i cant recognise your a stranger to me
    i feel so betrayed
    what a waste of my heart
    and me

    Get me out of here
    coz my eyes are burning from these silly tears
    that you brought when you showed me you dont really care
    when you never loved me
    someone get me out of this place
    right now

    my bodies trembling
    its so damn hard to kick this feeling
    your heart is so cold and now im freezing
    wish you could feel the pain
    baby i will arange it
    yeah yaeh yeah

    you changed up you makeup your DNA
    i cant recognise your a stranger to me
    i feel so betrayed
    what a waste of my heart
    and me

    Get me out of here
    coz my eyes are burning from these silly tears
    that you brought when you showed me you dont really care
    when you never loved me
    someone get me out of this place

    i thought that we were forever
    i guess i misunderstood
    my thought of thinking you loved me
    or thinking that you ever could

    Get me out of here right now
    Get me out of here right now

  • Zjsantelices

    Separated by Usher

    Oh no, no, no, no

    If love was a bird
    Then we wouldn’t have wings
    If love was a sky
    We’d be blue
    If love was a choir
    You and I could never sing
    Cause love isn’t for me and you

    If love was an Oscar
    You and I could never win
    Cause we can never act out our parts
    If love is the Bible
    Then we are lost in sin
    Because its not in our hearts

    So why don’t you go your way
    And I’ll go mine
    Live your life, and I’ll live mine
    Baby you’ll do well, and I’ll be fine
    Cause we’re better off, separated

    If love was a fire
    Then we have lost the spark
    Love never felt so cold
    If love was a light
    Then we’re lost in the dark
    Left with no one to hold

    If love was a sport
    We’re not on the same team
    You and I are destined to lose
    If love was an ocean
    Then we are just a stream
    Cause love isn’t for me and you

    So why don’t you go your way
    And I’ll go mine
    Live your life, and I’ll live mine
    Baby you’ll do well, and I’ll be fine
    Cause we’re better off, separated

    Girl I know we had some good times
    It’s sad but now we gotta say goodbye
    Girl you know I love you, I can’t deny
    I can’t say we didn’t try to make it work for you and I
    I know it hurts so much but it’s best for us
    Somewhere along this windy road we lost the trust
    So I’ll walk away so you don’t have to see me cry
    It’s killing me so, why don’t you go

    So why don’t you go your way
    And I’ll go mine
    Live your life, and I’ll live mine
    Baby you’ll do well, and I’ll be fine
    Cause we’re better off, separated

  • AvrilsFanGrl

    You forgot get over it by avril lavigne

    “dont turn around

    I’m sick and i’m tired of your face

    Dont make this worse

    You’ve already gone and got me mad

    Too bad i’m not sad

    It’s casting over

    It’s just one of those things

    You got to get over it”

  • http://lemonymommy.blogspot.com/ Peach

    Apologize-One Rebublic
    “It’s to late to apologize, it’s too late… I love you with a fire red, now it’s turning blue and you say sorry like the angel heaven let me think was you”

    Red High Heels- Kelli PicklerWell you said so yourself, you know the deal, no one can hold a candle to me in my red high heels”

    Red Light-David Nail
    “At a red light in the sunshine on a Sunday, nothing left to say, don’t even try…”

    T-Shirt- Shontelle
    “Gotta be strong, gotta be strong, but I’m really hurting now that you’re gone”

    Smile- Lonestar
    “I’m gunna smile, cuz I want to see you happy, Laugh so you won’t see me cry. I’m gunna let you go in style, even if it kills me, I’m gunna smile”

    ***I’ll Pray For you- Jaron & The Long Road to Love***
    “You keep messin up, and I’ll keep prayin for you. I pray your tire blows out at 110, I pray you pass out with your best friend and wake up with his and her tattoos. I pray your brakes go out running down a hill, I pray a flowerpot falls from a windowsill and knocks you in the head like I’d like to… Just know where ever you are honey, I’ll pray for you.”

    Love Fool- New Found Glory
    “So I cry, I pray and I beg, love me love, just say that you love me, fool me fool me, go on and fool me, love me love, pretend that you love me, leave me leave me just say that you need me…”

    Heart Like Memphis- Carter Twins
    “No one knows, When she cries alone, In the night, They just think, She’s alright, cause, She’s got a smile like california, She’s got a spirit like new orleans, Eyes like the lights of new york city, yeah, Cool as a carolina breeze, But underneath, But underneath, She’s got a heart like memphis

    Love Drunk- Boys Like Girls
    “I used to be love drunk, but now I’m hung over, I love you forever, Forever is over, We used to kiss all night, now it’s just a bar fight, so don’t call me crying…”

    Valentines Day- Linkin Park
    “So now you’re gone, and I was wrong, I never knew what it was like to be alone on a Valentines Day…”

  • Chlobags28

    Boys are Lame

    My favourites are:
    Kiss N Tell – Ke$ha
    Wisemen – James Blunt
    I Can Do Better – Avril Lavigne
    Everything Back But You – Avril Lavigne
    Smoke and Mirrors – Paloma Faith
    Under The Thumb – Amy Studt
    You’re Not Sorry – Taylor Swift
    Delete You – Ashley Tisdale
    I Heart ? – Taylor Swift
    Mistake – Stephanie McIntosh
    Not good Enough – The Saturdays
    Denial – The Saturdays
    Closure – Aly & Aj
    The Story Of Us – Taylor Swift
    Turn It Up – Pixie Lott
    Love Drunk – Boys Like Girls
    He loves You – The Pretty Reckless

    And if you wanna cry a little bit then these are good sad-breakup-songs…
    Why – Secondhand Serenade
    Forever And Always (Piano Version) – Taylor Swift

  • Jonajassim

    try :
    life goes on – leanne rimes
    healing – denielle williams
    i can make it through the rain – mariah carey
    just like a pill – pink
    someone that i used to love – lani hall
    try it on my own – whitney houston
    you’ll see – madonna
    big girls dont cry – fergie
    im not missing u – stacie orrico
    tatoo – jordan sparks

  • Misschavner

    good arms vs bad

    i see you, you see me

  • Nreetz91

    leave the pieces- the wrekers
    jar of hearts- Christina perry

  • That_one_chick90

    No. Don’t Speak – No Doubt doesn’t say that anywhere. Number 6 is Mary J. Blige “Not Gon’ Cry”. If you don’t agree look it up.

  • Amii

    I have a few break up songs…

    Neyo -go on girl ( it goes both ways)

  • Amii

    neyo- go on girl

    The mistake I made is clear
    (we never should’ve been together)
    Thats the reason you’re not here
    (I know that I can do much better)
    Not a single salty tear
    Not a feeling in my chest
    Baby I’m feeling no stress
    I’m too fly to be depressed
    XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

    Jordin Sparks- Battlefield
    JoJo-too little to late

    LETOYA LUCKETT- Not anymore ((this is my favorite ..so true ..all ppl can relate )))
    Somebody say I don’t want it anymore
    I don’t want it anymore
    Somebody say I don’t want it anymore
    I don’t want it anymore

    ‘Cause I’ve dried my eyes and I realized
    I deserve somebody that’ll treat me right
    Somebody say I don’t want it anymore
    I don’t want it anymore

    XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

    Emergency room feat akon (Rihanna)

    You’re gonna be in the emergency room
    I’m standing by your bed
    and so tempted to pull out your I.V
    You’re gonna be in the emergency room
    I’m fighting with myself
    I can’t hurt you even though you hurt me
    You’re gonna be in the emergency room
    Tryin to call a nurse but nobody can help you now
    Let me see you try to live without me
    Now where’s your heartbeat
    Flat line on the EKG
    XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

  • JackBuchanan

    I think you might like my list. “Best Top 5 Songs To Get Over Your Ex” http://www.best5everything.com/best5ListPages/songsoverex25312.php

  • Rootbeerrox7225

    I don’t need a man – Pussy Cat Dolls
    I don’t need a man to make it happen, I get off being free
    I don’t need a man to make me feel good , I get off doing my thing
    I don’t need a ring around my finger to make me feel complete
    So let me break it down , I can get off when you ain’t around oh !

  • Mgabriella

    Guys Suck!

    Everything Back But You – Avril Lavigne
    I Can Do Better – Avril lavigne
    From The Bottom Of My Broken Heart – Britney Spears
    So Yesterday – Hilary Duff
    LOVE IS DEAD – KERLI (This is a good one)
    I Could Say – Lily Allen (Another great song)
    SCARS – Natalie Imbruglia (If u’re not so over it)
    Last Cigarette – Bon Jovi
    Hello Hello – Paramore
    You Don’t See Me – Josie And The Pussycats
    Goodbye My Lover – James Blunt (u’ll cry with this one)
    I’m Not Missing You – Stacie Orrico
    Quittin’ You – The Band Perry
    You Oughta Know – Alanis Morissette

  • Paris

    This Is Me – Demi Lovato (To help you remember you can be happy by yourself by being yourself)

    I’ve always been the kind of girl
    That hid my face
    So afraid to tell the world

    What I’ve got to say
    But I have this dream
    Right inside of me
    I’m gonna let it show, it’s time
    To let you know
    To let you know

    This is real, this is me
    I’m exactly where I’m suppose to be, now
    Gonna let the light, shine on me
    Now I’ve found, who I am
    There’s no way to hold it in
    No more hiding who I want to be
    This is me

    Do you know what it’s like
    To feel so in the dark
    To dream about a life
    Where you’re the shining star
    Even though it seems
    Like it’s too far away
    I have to believe in myself
    It’s the only way

    This is real, This is me
    I’m exactly where I’m suppose to be, now
    Gonna let the light, shine on me
    Now I’ve found, who I am
    There’s no way to hold it in
    No more hiding who I want to be
    This is me

    You’re the voice I hear inside my head
    The reason that I’m singing
    I need to find you, I gotta find you
    You’re the missing piece I need
    The song inside of me
    I need to find you, I gotta find you

    This is real, this is me
    I’m exactly where I’m suppose to be, now
    Gonna let the light, shine on me
    Now I’ve found, who I am
    There’s no way to hold it in
    No more hiding who I want to be
    This is me
    You’re the missing piece I need
    The song inside of me (this is me)
    You’re the voice I hear inside my head
    The reason that I’m singing
    Now I’ve found, who I am
    There’s no way to hold it in
    No more hiding who I want to be
    This is me

    More lyrics: http://www.lyricsmania.com/this_is_me_lyrics_demi_lovato.html
    All about Demi Lovato: http://www.musictory.com/music/Demi+Lovato

  • Magnolia Belle

    Okay, I haven’t seen it on any of these yet…but Daughtry’s “No Surprise” is the best!

    Here are the lyrics:

    I’ve practiced this for hours, gone round and round
    And now I think that I’ve got it all down
    And as I say it louder I love how it sounds
    Cause I’m not taking the easy way out
    Not wrapping this in ribbons
    Shouldn’t have to give a reason why…
    It’s NO SURPRISE I won’t be here tomorrow
    I can’t believe that I stayed till today
    Yeah you and I will be a tough act to follow
    But I know in time we’ll find this was NO SURPRISE
    It came out like a river once I let it out
    When I thought that I wouldn’t know how
    Held onto it forever just pushing it down
    Felt so good to let go of it now
    Not wrapping this in ribbons
    Shouldn’t have to give a reason why
    It’s NO SURPRISE I won’t be here tomorrow
    I can’t believe that I stayed till today
    There’s nothing here in this heart left to borrow
    There’s nothing here in this soul left to say
    Don’t be surprised when we hate this tomorrow
    God know we tried to find an easier way
    Yeah you and I will be a tough act to follow
    But I know in time we’ll find this was NO SURPRISE
    Our favorite place we used to go
    The warm embrace that no one knows
    The loving look that’s left your eyes
    That’s why this comes as no, as NO SURPRISE
    If I could see the future and how this plays out
    I bet it’s better than where we are now
    But after going through this, it’s easier to see the reason why
    It’s NO SURPRISE I won’t be here tomorrow
    I can’t believe that I stayed till today
    Yeah you and I will be a tough act to follow
    But I know in time we’ll find this was NO SURPRISE
    The kiss goodnight, it comes with me
    Both wrong and right, our memories
    The whispering before we sleep, just one more thing that you can’t keep
    Our favorite place we used to go
    The warm embrace that no one knows
    The loving look that’s left your eyes
    But I know in time we’ll find this was NO SURPRISE

  • Thanks

    Thank You!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That helped me so much!!’ my jerk dumped me cuz I am Fun and out of countrule with my friends!!!!

  • Rainnmichael

    mine dumped me over a text. jerk. turns out he wasnt a man, but a friggin boy

  • AlexP

    mine cheated w my friend. he asked me to forgive him while he still had a hickey from her.

  • In-Grid

    Just Fine from Mary J Blige … that tell you will be fine and be your self

  • Mabel_ilumba

    same here… broken up over a txt… arghhh

  • Mabel_ilumba

    one good song is “JUST A FEELING” BY maroon 5

  • Rehreh521

    that happend to me too. so sad. :(

  • boys suck!

    a guy tells me he likes me and wants to go out with me, the next day he turns around and hates me, i think one of my “friends” said something to him

  • PlayerrHaterr.

    there you go- p!nk.

  • Connie liang

    best i did good feelig so emotional some time i got angry best thing calm down listen music thankyou for postiving living it over don’t need man who found dating cheat lie hurt be okay my life are free single girl don’t talk phone his mistake and learn i did someone meet love me dating laugh and talk good time also geeting married i am so fanantic move on

  • Mechanmanekineko

    my favourite break up song:

    eva simons- silly boy

    You`re callin’ me more than ever now that we`re done

    Two keys back to my place, we were having no fun

    But you`re not ok, tellin’ me you miss my face

    I remember when you would say you hate my ways

    I said I`m not coming back, is it

    You only want what you can`t have. That ego turning

    Just too bad for you, that when you had me

    Didn’t know what to do, Game over. You lose

    Cause you had a good girl, good girl, girl

    That?s a keeper, k-k-k-k-keeper

    You had a good girl, good girl but

    Didn’t know how to treat her, t-t-t-t-treat her (treat her)

    So silly boy get out my face (my face)

    Why do you like the way regrets taste?

    So silly boy get out my hair my hair(get outta here)

    No, I don?t want you no more (get outta here)

    Silly boy (silly boy)

    Why you acting silly boy?

    Silly boy boy (boy boy)

    Acting acting silly boy?

    You comin with those corny lines

    Can?t live without me

    I?ll get some flowers for the day that you are buried

    No, people make mistakes

    But I just think your ass is fake

    Only thing I want from you, is for you to (stay away)

    I said i`m not coming back, is it

    You only want what you can`t have. That ego turning

    Just too bad for you, that when you had me

    Didn?t know what to do,game over. You lose.

    christina perri- jar of hearts

    “I know I can’t take one more step towards you
    Cause all that’s waiting is regret
    And don’t you know I’m not your ghost anymore
    You lost the love I loved the most

    I learned to live half alive
    And now you want me one more time

    And who do you think you are
    Running ’round leaving scars
    Collecting your jar of hearts
    And tearing love apart
    You’re gonna catch a cold
    From the ice inside your soul
    So don’t come back for me
    Who do you think you are

    I hear you’re asking all around
    If I am anywhere to be found
    But I have grown too strong
    To ever fall back in your arms

    And learn to live half alive
    And now you want me one more time

    And who do you think you are
    Running ’round leaving scars
    Collecting your jar of hearts
    And tearing love apart
    You’re gonna catch a cold
    From the ice inside your soul
    So don’t come back for me
    Who do you think you are
    Dear, it took so long just to feel alright
    Remember how to put back the light in my eyes
    I wish I had missed the first time that we kissed
    Cause you broke all your promises
    And now you’re back
    You don’t get to get me back

  • Sammv93

    Oh Man!! I was looking for a song which expressed what I’m feeling right no so I was reading all the songs from above, from 10 to 1 and when I arrived to #1 and read the title “I Will Survived” I almost scream of desperation cuz that was the first song this boy (the reason I’m looking for a “I want to forget this jerk” song) and I danced for the first time, two years ago!! I don’t know if I should take that as a signal but IT WAS VERY CREEPY!!!

  • Sasha Dentremont

    Special Ones – Katie Noonan, found out on the 10th of Jan my now ex-boyfriend was having an affair with a married women at his work… THIS SONG helps me everyday.

  • Brie

    Undo it by Carrie underwood???

  • jez

    Kate Nash – Merry happy

    Watching me like you never watch no one
    Don’t tell me that you didn’t try and check out my bum
    Cause I know that you did
    Cause your friend told me that you liked it
    Gave me those pearls and I thought they were ugly
    Though you try to tell me that you never loved me
    I know that you did
    Cause you said it and you wrote it down

    Dancing at discos
    Eating cheese on toast
    Yeah you make me merry make me very very happy
    But you obviously, you didn’t want to stick around (x2)

    So I learnt from you

    Do do do da do do do do do da do do do do do da do (x2)

    I can be alone, yeah
    I can watch a sunset on my own
    I can be alone, yeah
    I can watch a sunset on my own
    I can be alone
    I can watch a sunset on my own (x2)

    Sitting in restaurants
    Thought we were so grown up
    But I know now that we were not the people that we turned out to be

    Chatting on the phone can’t take back those hours
    But I won’t regret cause you can grow flowers from where dirt used to be

    Dancing at discos…

  • http://twitter.com/aliyahkhairani Aliyah Khairani

    urmm, my best break up song ? Hinder – Without you OR alexandher – will you fuck yourself tonight

  • xie anne

    BEAUTIFUL GIRLS – Michelle Kelly
    it so nice !

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ICgDEWV_2SY

    open this link , and try to listen ..

  • Kat

    Within Temptation – Angels!
    Try it! It saved me when I was dead inside

  • Madisonmommy_19

    myxx thats anit love

  • ForgetHim

    Burhan G – Who Is He

  • Shoptillyadrop

    So sick by Ne-yo is definitely my top break up song.
    The lyrics are perfect.

  • Chanty_vh

    Rihanna has a few good songs, Cry is one of them.
    I simply love that song!

    The lyrics of take a bow are almost as great as Cry.

    Another very good song is The difference from the dutch artist Anouk. Great lyrics.
    And when you listened that song and also loved it, then I can also recommend For bitter or worse, also a very good song.

  • Govender chick

    Hey:) a reli good song is time to say goodbye by simple plan also if any one wants to get bk @ their ex i cn help u wid that u might think u won’t feel beter bt u feel 1000x beter than before u cn invite on facebook my names kiara govender i hace no pic yet or bbm 229BEDCC it reli helps guys

  • Lucy

    Carrie Underwood- Songs Like This
    And if it wasn’t for guys like you there wouldn’t be songs like this

    And if you hadn’t gone and done me wrong I wouldn’t go off like this

    Yeah, even I’m surprised how easy sweet revenge rolls off my lips

    If it wasn’t for guys like you there wouldn’t be songs like this

  • Sphantomhive

    thx man

  • m16dub

    the boy I liked for a whole year just asked out my friend and keeps telling me all about it….these help, thanks everyone:)

  • lg567

    Im 16 and i liked someone, but our families dont like eachother, we met in secret and kissed, i felt bad and didnt talk to him afterwards, after getting the courage to talk to him again, i found out he has a girlfriend, and theres a lovely photo of them kissing on facebook. Fuck Him.

    Kelis-i hate you so much right now
    Pink- u and ur hand
    justin timberlake- cry me a river
    The all american rejects-gives you hell
    Frankee-Fuck you right back
    Kelis-Trick me
    Beyone-irreplaceable
    Fallout Boy- Thanks for the memories
    Pink-So what

  • lea15

    i think ashley tisdale’s ‘its alright its okay’ is a great track..’
    here are the lyrics

    You told me There’s no need To talk it out Cause its too late To proceed And slowly I took your words And walked away No looking back I wont regret, no I will find my way I’m broken But still I have to say It’s Alright, it’s OK I’m so much better without you I won’t be sorry It’s Alright, it’s OK So don’t you bother what I do No matter what you say I wont return Our bridge has burned down I’m stronger now It’s Alright, it’s OK I’m so much better without you I won’t be sorry You played me Betrayed me Your love was nothing but a game Portrayed a role You took control, I I couldn’t help but fall So deep But now I see things clear It’s Alright, it’s OK I’m so much better without you I won’t be sorry [ From: http://www.metrolyrics.com/its-alright-its-ok-lyrics-ashley-tisdale.html ]
    It’s Alright, it’s OK So don’t you bother what I do No matter what you say I wont return Our bridge has burned down I’m stronger now It’s Alright, it’s OK I’m so much better without you I won’t be sorry Don’t waste your fiction tears on me Just save them for someone in need It’s way too late I’m closing the door It’s Alright, OK I’m so much better without you I won’t be sorry It’s Alright, it’s OK So don’t you bother what I do No matter what you say I wont return Our bridge has burned down I’m stronger now It’s Alright, it’s OK I’m so much better without you I won’t be sorry It’s Alright, it’s OK Alright, OK Without you No matter what you say It’s Alright, it’s OK Alright, OK Without you I won’t be sorry

  • heartbreaker

    its been a messy year. i just broke it off w/a summer fling & i feel terrible cuz i broke his heart…*sigh* thank you all for commenting…evry song helps ya know? well i’ve really gotten into panic! at the disco. here are a couple by them that really says it all: trade mistakes, memories, and the calendar.

  • Joni

    Damage is done by Foreigner

    Is there a reasonFor things that you say?The way you’re treating meAll the games I won’t playWell it’s too late, no longer oneDon’t want you, the damage is done
    Will you miss meWhen I leave you behind?Will you tell your friendsI treated you unkind?Well it’s over now, and I’m on the runI don’t want you, the damage is done
    There have been rumorsThat my sense of humor is
    lacking in some waysTo me that’s no reason, it’stantamount to treasonSee what the judge has to sayYou need to find someone half as blindAs I am to your gamesAnd maybe you’ll find outwhat it’s all aboutAnd it can drive you insane
    Ooh the damage is doneAnd now I feel it’s too lateThe damage is doneIt’s overNow I’m on the runAnd baby you and I knowThe damage is done
    I feel it’s too lateThe damage is done

  • Roo

    I Just made my break up song list. Enjoy!

     

    Peachy – Missy Higgins                                   

    Labour of Love – Frente!                                   

    Irreplaceable – Beyoncé                                   

    No – Shakira & Gustavo Cerati                                               

    Beautiful Liar            -
    Beyoncé & Shakira                                               

    Fighter – Christina Aguilera           

    Feeling Good – Michael Bublé                                   

    Big Girls Don’t Cry (Personal) – Fergie                       

    Special Ones – Katie Noonan                                   

    Tears Dry On Their Own – Amy Winehouse                                   

    1901 – Phoenix                       

    So Over You – Ashanti

    Take a Bow – Rihanna

    I’m Not Missing You – Stacie Orrico           

    Thank You – Jamelia           

    Energy – Keri Hilson           

  • Xo_brunettegirl_ox

    –new 2011 BEST BREAKUP SONGS –
    Mr. Know it all-kelly clarksonWrong man for the job- JOJODisaster-JOJO

    Don’t hold your breath- nicole Scherzinger

    –Good old break up songs–

    Over it- katherine Mcphee

    Fighter- Christina Aguilera

    It’s Over- Jesse MCcartney

    Too little too late-JoJo

    Goodbye- Kristinia Debarge

    I dont care- battleroy

    It’s alright, its ok- ashley tisdale

    so what- pink

    I look so good (without you)

    –angry at men songs–
    Stuttering-fefe Dobson
    emergency room Akon ft Rihanna
    The other chick-JoJo
    He wasn’t- avril lavigne
    i can do better avril lavigne

  • Tgrss21974

    Lily Allen- Smile :)

  • Tgrss21974

    Another Love Song- ICP
    Puke- Eminem

  • http://www.facebook.com/gwenitx Gonez Gweni

    2 of the best are “Strong Enough” and “Believe” by Cher…classic but awesome, they both help so much. Helps you start to see your value and strength is not dependent on any man. Cher’s other song “Just like Jesse James” is good too.

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