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Top 10 Breakup Songs to Get Over Your Ex-Boyfriend

  • Posted by: Tami Ng
  • on Friday, May 4th, 2007

Kelly Clarkson

Just broke up with that loser/bastard/(place the jerk description word of choice here) ex-boyfriend of yours? It’s time to vent out your anger and get over how he wronged you. Forget all the sad, lovey dovey, and mushy I miss you songs.

Pop these women empowering songs into your favorite player and rock to being strong and independent.

#10 – My Happy Ending by Avril Lavigne

Favorite Lines:

You’ve got your dumb friends
I know what they say
They tell you I’m difficult
But so are they
But they don’t know me
Do they even know you?
All the things you hide from me
All the shit that you do

#9 – Don’t Bother by Shakira

Favorite Lines:

So don’t bother
I won’t die of deception
I promise you won’t ever see me cry
Don’t feel sorry

#8 – Get Out (Leave) – JoJo

Favorite Lines:

Get Out (leave) right now,
it’s the end of you and me,
It’s too late (now) and I cant wait for you to be gone,
cause I know about her, (who) and I wonder (why),
how I bought all the lies.
You said that you would treat me right
but you was just a waste of time. (waste of time)

#7 – Ain’t It Funny – Jennifer Lopez

Favorite Lines:

It’s been awhile since you came around
Now ya wanna see what’s goin’ down
Tryin’ to tell me why ya want my time
Tryin’ to tell me how I’m on your mind
See it never had to be this way
You should of never played the games you played
Now I’m seein’ that you’re kinda lame
Knowin how the situation change

#6 – Not Goin’ Cry – Mary J. Blige

Favorite Lines:

I was your lover and your secretary
Working every day of the week
Was at the job when no one else was there
Helping you get on your feet
Eleven years of sacrifice
And you can leave at the drop of a dime
Swallowed my fears, stood by your side
I shoulda left your ass a thousand times

#5 – Over It – Katharine McPhee

Favorite Lines:

Movin’ on, it’s my time
You never were a friend of mine
Hurt at first, a little bit
But now I’m so over
So over it
I’m so over it

#4 – Survivor – Destiny’s Child

Favorite Lines:

Thought I couldn’t breathe without you,
I’m inhalin’
You thought I couldn’t see without you,
Perfect vision,
You thought I couldn’t last without ya,
But I’m lastin’
You thought that I would die without ya,
But I’m livin’
Thought that I would fail without ya,
But I’m on top,
Though it would be over by now,
But it won’t stop,
You thought that I would self-destruct,
But I’m still here,
Even in my years to come,
I’m still gon’ be here.

#3 – Irreplaceable – Beyonce

Favorite Lines:

So since I�m not your everything
How about I’ll be nothing
Nothing at all to you
Baby I wont shead a tear for you
I won’t lose a wink of sleep
Cause the truth of the matter is
Replacing you is so easy

#2 – Since U Been Gone – Kelly Clarkson

Favorite Lines:

You had your chance, you blew it
Out of sight, out of mind
Shut your mouth, I just can’t take it
Again and again and again and again
But since you been gone
I can breathe for the first time
I’m so movin’ on, yeah, yeah
Thanks to you, now I get, I get what I want
Since you been gone

#1 – I Will Survive – Gloria Gaynor

Favorite Lines:

Go on now go walk out the door
just turn around now
’cause you’re not welcome anymore
weren’t you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
you think I’d crumble
you think I’d lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive

Did I miss any of your favorite songs to get over that loser? If so, let me know!

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  • David
    • Posted by: David
    • on May 4th, 2007 at 5:23 pm

    I Will Survive is a classic, list is nice :D

  • BEAUTYY
    • Posted by: BEAUTYY
    • on May 4th, 2007 at 7:36 pm

    Try:
    Fefe Dobson – Bye Bye Boyfriend
    “It was fun but it couldn’t last forever
    Bye Bye pretty boy,friend
    it’s time to pack it up
    Baby ’cause it’s over now

    Carrie Underwood – Before He Cheats
    ” dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
    carved my name into his leather seats.
    I took a louisville slugger to both head lights,
    slashed a hole in all 4 tires.
    maybe next time he’ll think before he cheats.”

    Oh heck, Willa Ford – A Toast to Men (Best man hater song ever)

    “It was fun but it couldn’t last forever
    Bye Bye pretty boy,friend
    it’s time to pack it up
    Baby ’cause it’s over now”

    Yes, I’ve had my troubles with men T.T

  • yume
    • Posted by: yume
    • on May 4th, 2007 at 8:23 pm

    Great list of songs! I’m gonna send this over to my girl friend who just broke up with some guy that cheated on her. :(

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    • Posted by: allgood
    • on May 4th, 2007 at 8:25 pm

    no Valerie Simpson – silly wasn’t I?

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    no Ben Folds Five – Song For The Dumped?

    Give me my money back,
    Give me my money back,
    You bitch!

  • AllaN
    • Posted by: AllaN
    • on May 4th, 2007 at 10:25 pm

    Very nice list hahaahaha, im glad Gloria Gaynor’s I Will Survive was included, makes the list seem more mixed

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    • Posted by: phanguy
    • on May 4th, 2007 at 10:46 pm

    there should be a list for guys too!

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    • Posted by: allgood
    • on May 5th, 2007 at 1:31 am

    guys dont listen to songs about getting dumped. they write them.

  • Lenka
    • Posted by: Lenka
    • on May 5th, 2007 at 3:47 am

    “pussy cat dolls – i don’t need a man”

  • niivek
    • Posted by: niivek
    • on May 5th, 2007 at 4:49 am

    trust company – stronger

    hahaha, not a break up song but good song none the less :D

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    • Posted by: duperpok
    • on May 5th, 2007 at 9:02 am

    I had a friend call to tell of her breakup with a boyfriend an hour ago. What a coincidence.. Not sure if I should tell her about the songs though. Some girls get mad, others despair and break down.

    If I may, “You’ve got a friend” by James Taylor probably is a helpful song in these testing times.

  • razi
    • Posted by: razi
    • on May 5th, 2007 at 4:37 pm

    Since u been gone is perfect when you want to just shout your frustrations! Trust me I know… When my sister broke up with her bf, she couldn’t stop blasting that song!!! :D

  • vm3z9
    • Posted by: vm3z9
    • on May 5th, 2007 at 9:37 pm

    i think linkin park should go on the list, you can just let it all go in one song.

  • Terry Ng
    • Posted by: Terry Ng
    • on May 5th, 2007 at 10:20 pm

    Unfortunately, Linkin Park isn’t made up of female singers. ;)

  • glimmerish
    • Posted by: glimmerish
    • on May 7th, 2007 at 11:51 am

    Add to the list:
    These Boots Are Made For Walking – Nancy Sinatra

  • David
    • Posted by: David
    • on May 7th, 2007 at 12:34 pm

    I’m pretty down with the fact that Kineda could have more top-10 list, good to see where all the good taste in music comes from. :)

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    • Posted by: virgo
    • on May 7th, 2007 at 2:41 pm

    “Don’t Stay”……LInkin Park…..nothing unfortunate about it.

  • Dexter Kanuto

    I also consider I WILL SURVIVE since it came in first place.

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    • Posted by: obiswill
    • on May 8th, 2007 at 3:46 pm

    Song number six has wrong title and singer. Title song is Don’t Speak – by No Doubt. ;) MJB is more mellow.

  • haz
    • Posted by: haz
    • on May 8th, 2007 at 5:56 pm

    can’t beat a classic like ‘i will survive

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    • Posted by: allgood
    • on May 8th, 2007 at 10:18 pm
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    You can’t forget You Outta know by Alanis Morressette!!

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  • Stanley
    • Posted by: Stanley
    • on June 24th, 2007 at 2:54 pm

    How about “Don’t Look Back” by Boston?

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    “Gone Forever” by Three Days Grace
    I don’t care if it was written by guys… it’s in my opinion, one of the best songs to get over anyone.. guy or girl… great lyrics

    “I feel so much better
    Now that you’re gone forever
    I tell myself that i don’t miss you at all
    I’m not lying, denying that i feel so much better
    Now that you’re gone forever”

    “First time you screamed at me
    I should have made you leave
    I should have known it could be so much better
    I hope you’re missing me
    I hope I’ve made you see
    That I’m gone forever”

    omg it’s such a good song! takes away all heartache and frustrations.

    and then another… not as good… but still good

    “Never Again” by Kelly Clarkson

    “Does it hurt
    to know I’ll never be there
    Bet it sucks
    to see my face everywhere
    It was you
    who chose to end it like you did
    I was the last to know
    you knew
    exactly what you would do
    And don’t say
    you simply lost your way
    She may believe you
    but I never will
    never again”

    ahhh now the list is perfect =)

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    • Posted by: zzoomgirl
    • on September 11th, 2007 at 12:08 pm

    This is an oldy but this one has given me great inspiration to keep going.

    Time for me to fly REO Speedwagon

    I’ve been around for you
    I’ve been up and down for you
    But I just gan’t get any relief
    I’ve swallowed my pride for you
    Buy you still make me feel like a thief

    You go me stealin’ your love away
    ‘Cause you never give it
    Peeling the years away
    And we can’t relive it
    Oh I make you live
    And you make me cry
    I believe it’s time for me to fly

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    Try the song As If by Blaque. It is an amazing songs for getting over the guy that broke your heart.

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    • Posted by: jmopikokew
    • on November 1st, 2007 at 12:07 am

    What about the song…….”there you go” by PINK!

    Please dont come around
    Talkin bout that you love me
    cause you loved those b****s before me
    I dont wanna hear that you adore me
    And I know that all youre doin
    Is playin your mind games
    Dont you know that game beats game
    So your best bet is to be straight wit me

    So you say you wanna talk, lets talk
    If you wont talk, Ill walk
    Yeah its like that
    I got a new man, hes waitin out back
    Now what do you think about that
    And when I say Im through, Im through
    So basically Im through wit you
    Whatcha wanna say?
    Had to have it your way, had to play games
    Now youre beggin me to stay

    Now this is a awesome song for all those mind game players….. like there is more f***ing fish in the sea man, life goes on!!!

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    amazing son list.

    jordyn taylor- stong is another good one.

    “Ohh i dont need you anymore;
    and don’t you know, that

    You, were the one that made me strong;
    you made me stand up on my own,
    with every cruel intention, you helped me find my
    independence.

    yeah it’s all because of you,
    that i have the strength i do,
    to turn my pain to passion, instead of crashin’.
    Boy i’m thankin’ you. Boy i’m thankin’ you.

    Thinking back on how you changed me,
    everytime, you tried to put me down.
    even though you really hurt me,
    underneath, myself is what i found.
    so take a look inside these eyes now,
    and say the things you want to say to me.
    cuz i’ve already spread my wings out;
    and your the one, the one who set me free.”

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    • Posted by: Lizza
    • on May 24th, 2008 at 3:14 am

    Leave- Matchbox Twenty
    Yes they maybe a little lame but good sond to get you very depressed.
    Im not saying there wasnt nothing wrong
    I just didnt think youd ever get tired of me
    Im now saying we ever had the right to hold on
    I just didnt wanna let it get away from me

    But if thats how its gonna leave
    Straight out from underneath
    Then well see whos sorry now
    If thats how its gonna stand, when
    You know youve been depending on
    The one youre leaving now
    The one youre leaving out

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    • Posted by: vesnicka
    • on June 23rd, 2008 at 7:36 pm

    You have to add “Fighter” by Christina Aguliera because it’s about liers and loosers in general not just cheaters since not all break ups are due to cheating.

    After all of the fights and the lies
    Yes you wanted to harm me but that won’t work anymore
    Uh, no more, oh no, it’s over
    ‘Cause if it wasn’t for all of your torture
    I wouldn’t know how to be this way now, and never back down
    So I wanna say thank you

    ‘Cause it makes me that much stronger
    Makes me work a little bit harder
    Makes me that much wiser
    So thanks for making me a fighter
    Made me learn a little bit faster
    Made my skin a little bit thicker
    It makes me that much smarter
    So thanks for making me a fighter

    Also “Me, myself and I” by Beyonce
    ME, MYSELF AND I
    THATS ALL I GOT IN THE END
    THATS WHAT I FOUND OUT
    AND IT AINT NO NEED TO CRY
    I TOOK A VOW THAT FROM NOW ON
    I’M GON’NA BE MY OWN BEST FRIEND

    I GOT ME, MYSELF AND I
    I KNOW THAT I WILL NEVER DISAPOINT MYSELF
    My eyes HAVE CRIED A THOUSAND TIMES
    ALL THE LADIES IF YOU FEEL ME HELP ME SING IT OUT
    I CAN’T REGRET TIME SPENT WITH YOU
    YEAH YOU HURT ME BUT I LEARNED A LOT ALONG THE WAY
    IT’S HOW I LEARNED TO MAKE IT THROUGH
    AFTER ALL THE RAIN YOU SEE THE SUN COME OUT AGAIN

    Great songs

  • pornstardashian

    ****NO DOUBT “DON’T SPEAK” makes me cry and i refuse to listen to it for that reason. every verse of that song applies to all jerky boyfriends…

    ****NO DOUBT “EX-GRILFRIEND”
    =i kinda always knew i’d end up your ex-girlfriend
    i hope i hold a special place with the rest of them
    and you know it makes me sick to be on that list
    but i shoulda thought of that before we kissed…

    ****NO DOUBT “DETECTIVE”
    =peek in, sneak about i’m gonna snoop and call you out
    i caught you, your hands are red
    now im your broken hearted dectective

    hey lover why the gun? hold on i’m almost there
    it’s too late you’ve killed the trust
    dont act so unaware

    ****SHERYL CROW “IF IT MAKES YOU HAPPY”
    those two powerful lines…scream these at the top of your lungs ((preferably to his face))

    =if it makes you happy, it can’t be that bad
    if it makes you happy, then why the hell are you so sad?

    ****TRINA (f/christina milian) “SINGLE AGAIN”
    the entire song is the newly singles girls’ anthem

    =i’m single again. back on the prowl.
    thought it was perfect. i don’t know how
    i’m single again…

    stop callin me apologizin dont even start it
    hope u find wat ur lookin for back on the market
    lets agree to disagree dont explain shit to me,
    i got my own money there’s nobody i need
    i need my own space…

    hold up wait a goddamn minute
    it aint over til i say we finished
    til i get my half
    then i sit back and relax and just laugh ( ha! ha! ha!)

    ****MYA “MOVIN’ ON”
    =im so confused. i don’t know what to do.
    but i gotta be a woman. i gotta get over you…

    and your lyin’ ass been cheatin’ and i can’t take it no
    more
    i’ll be movin’ on…

    ((over all a great “just caught you cheating and i dont have time for your shit” song))

    ****MYA “CASE OF THE EX”
    =There’s no need to reminisce about the past
    obviously cause that shit did not last
    I know how a woman will try to game you
    so don’t get caught up because baby you’ll lose…

    ((okay so this is more of a “bitch why you tryna take whats minez” kinda song but this verse helps a break up too))

    ****MARIAH CAREY “SHAKE IT OFF”
    granted its not a scream your ass off kinda song, but its the best for those of us who are more mellow and cool, calm, and collected. every line from chorus to verse is relational.
    =(I gotta shake it off)
    ‘Cause the lovin’ ain’t the same, and you keep on playin’ games
    Like you know I’m here to stay
    (I gotta shake, shake it off)
    Just like the Calgon commercial I really got get up outta here
    And go somewhere
    (I gotta shake it off)
    Gotta make that move (Yeah), find somebody who appreciates all the love I give
    (Boy I gotta shake, shake it off)
    Gotta do what’s best for me (uh-huh)
    Baby and that means I gotta
    (Shake you off)

    By the time you get this message it’s gonna be too late
    So don’t bother pagin’ me ’cause I’ll be on my way
    See I packed up my diamonds and clothes,
    Just ask your mama she knows
    You’re gonna miss me baby hate to say I told you so

    Well at first I didn’t know but now it’s clear to me
    You would cheat with all ya freaks and lie compulsively
    So packed up my Louis Vuitton,
    Jump in your ride took off
    You’ll never ever find another girl who loves you more than me

    [chorus]
    I gotta shake it off
    ‘Cause the lovin’ ain’t the same, and you keep on playin’ games
    Like you know I’m here to stay
    (I gotta shake, shake it off)
    Just like the Calgon commercial I really got get up outta here
    And go somewhere
    (I gotta shake it off)
    Gotta make that move (uh-huh), find somebody who appreciates all the love I give
    (Boy I gotta shake, shake it off)
    Gotta do what’s best for me (Yeah)
    Baby and that means I gotta
    (Shake you off)

    I found out about a gang of ya dirty little deeds
    With this one and that one by the pool on the beach in the street heard ya’ll was-
    Hold up, my phone’s breakin’ up I’mma hang up and call the machine right back
    I gotta get this off of my mind

    You wasn’t worth my time so I’m leavin’ you behind
    ‘Cause I need a real love in my life
    Save this recording because, I’m never coming back home
    Baby I’m gone
    Don’t you know…(chorus)

    and then theres good old
    ****TONI BRAXTON “HE WASN’T MAN ENOUGH FOR ME”****

    ((title alone pretty much sums it all up))

    ^^^BLINK 182 “DAMMIT”
    more for the dudes but can also relate to girls i guess…in a weird Blink 182 kinda way lol

    =It’s alright / to tell me / what you think / about me
    I won’t try / to argue / or hold it / against you
    I know that / you’re leaving / you must have / your reasons
    The season / is calling / and your pictures / are falling down

    The steps that / I retrace / the sad look / on your face
    The timing / and structure / did you hear / he fucked her?
    A day late / a buck short / I’m writing / the report
    On losing / and failing / when I move / I’m flailing now

    and it’ll happen once again I’ll turn to a friend
    Someone that understands
    Sees through the master plan

    But everybody’s gone
    And I’ve been here for too long
    To face this on my own
    Well I guess this is growing up

    And maybe / I’ll see you / at a movie / sneak preview
    You’ll show up / and walk by / on the arm / of that guy
    And I’ll smile / and you’ll wave / we’ll pretend / it’s okay
    The charade / it won’t last / when he’s gone / I won’t come back

    And it’ll happen once again
    You’ll turn to a friend
    Someone that understands
    And sees through the master plan

    But everybody’s gone
    And you’ve been there for too long
    To face this on your own
    Well I guess this is growing up…

    ^^^NEW FOUND GLORY “MY FRIEND’S OVER YOU”
    there is a line in the infamous chorus that is debated but either one is applicable to a situation

    =you were everything i wanted
    but i just can’t finish what i started
    there’s no room left here on my back
    it was damaged long ago
    though you swear that you are true
    i still pick my friends over you
    OR
    i still think my friend’s over you

    ^^^SUBLIME “SANTERIA”
    okay i think it applies more as a mellow dramatic “i love you violently” kinda songs…
    FYI “sancho” is a mexican term to mean “that other guy” (often on the side) and “heina” pronounced HI-NAH is the mexican equivalent of “chick”

    =If I could find that heina and that sancho that shes found,
    Well Id pop a cap in sancho and Id slap her down…

    But my soul will have to wait till I get back and find heina of my own…

    Tell sanchito that if he knows what is good for him he best go run and hide.
    Daddys got a new .45.
    And I wont think twice to stick that barrel straight down sanchos throat.
    Believe me when I say that I got somethin for his punk ass…

    my iPod is filled with these kinda songs…but its okay

    well as you can tell i have had my share of heart breaks and frankly they annoyed the hell out of me but the songs produced by people in my situations made it a whole lot easier to get on and to get it on with someone new

    xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

    =

  • pornstardashian

    oh shit i forgot one and this one is the best ((in my opinion))

    ******** AMY WINEHOUSE “BACK TO BLACK” *******

    yeah its pretty depressing but great if your piss drunk (like amy must have been when she wrote this)

    =======He left no time to regret
    Kept his dick wet
    With his same old safe bet
    Me and my head high
    And my tears dry
    Get on without my guy
    You went back to what you knew
    So far removed from all that we went through
    And I tread a troubled track
    My odds are stacked
    I’ll go back to black

    We only said good-bye with words
    I died a hundred times
    You go back to her
    And I go back to…..

    I go back to us

    I love you much
    It’s not enough
    You love blow and I love puff
    And life is like a pipe
    And I’m a tiny penny rolling up the walls inside

    We only said goodbye with words
    I died a hundred times
    You go back to her
    And I go back to black….

  • pornstardashian

    its those first four lines in back to black that helped me get over this guy i was madly stupid in love with for almost 2 years

    and the sad thing is i was the safe bet…

    but still the same concept.

    he chose someone else and just walked out on me with no emotion whatsoever

    damn those lines burn like good tequila

    xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

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    • Posted by: tornadotoni
    • on December 28th, 2008 at 12:14 am

    Here’s my list….

    Ain’t It Funny (Murder Remix) – Jennifer Lopez Feat. Ja Rule
    Almost Doesn’t Count – Brandy
    At Least (The Little Things) – Kelly Price
    Better In Time – Leona Lewis
    Breakaway – Kelly Clarkson
    Bust Your Windows – Jazmine Sullivan
    Enough Cryin’ – Mary J. Blige
    Foolish – Ashanti
    Gotta Move On – Monica
    Hit ‘Em Up Style (Oops!) – Blu Cantrell
    I’m Gonna Be Alright – Jennifer Lopez
    I Bow Out – Whitney Houston
    (I Just Want It) To Be Over – Keyshia Cole
    I Learned From The Best – Whitney Houston
    I Will Survive – Chantay Savage version
    If You Love Me – Brownstone
    Irreplaceable – Beyoncé
    It’s Over Now – Deborah Cox
    Leave (Get Out) – JoJo
    Let It Go – Keyshia Cole
    Love Shoulda Brought You Home – Toni Braxton
    Me, Myself And I – Beyoncé
    Never Again – Kelly Clarkson
    No More Drama – Mary J. Blige
    No Way – Faith Evans
    Shake It Off – Mariah Carey
    Shoulda Let You Go – Keyshia Cole
    Since U Been Gone – Kelly Clarkson
    Single Ladies – Beyoncé
    There You Go – P!nk
    ‘Til You Do Me Right – After 7

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    ooh!

    Gives you Hell by All american rejects.

    …When you see my face, hope it gives you hell, hope it gives you hell!

    …&truth be told i miss you…&truth be told, IM LYIN’!!

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    • Posted by: abynu38
    • on February 4th, 2009 at 12:58 pm

    Trust Company -Falling Apart
    Great Song :)

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    TRY GIVES YOU HELL BY THE ALL AMERICAN REJECTS…SUCH AN INSPIRING BREAKUP SONG

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    • Posted by: abi76
    • on March 23rd, 2009 at 10:37 pm

    I didnt read ALL the songs above, but I have to say that THE ROSELINE’s OVER YOU is the best… here is a snippet…
    “I will offer you my coffin, I wont be needing it now, I will close the lid and lock it,
    I will joke and smoke when you are in the ground,
    I am
    OVER YOU
    I am
    OVER YOU
    with your lowly views
    and you pride like
    cocaine attitude”

    This song helped me get passed a real “winner,” to say the least.

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    • Posted by: chic4o1
    • on April 12th, 2009 at 11:26 pm

    a good one…that is HEALTHY too is lions and tigers and bears by jasmine sullivan

    “am I the only one who thinks its an impossible task;
    why it don’t last is that so much to ask
    why do we love love
    when love seem to hate us?

    Sorry if I sound so filled with gloom
    You say you care and I know you do
    But this is from my experience
    And my conclusion only makes sense
    Just cause I love you and you love me
    that doesnt meant that were meant to be
    I can climb mountains swim cross the seas
    but the most frightening thing is you and me
    ………………..
    Most Circumstances I know my fate
    But in this love thing i dont get the game
    Why does it feel like those who give in
    They only wind up losing a friend
    Just cause I love you and you love me
    It doesnt mean that we’ll ever be
    Fly cross the ocean sing for the queen
    But the most frightening thing is you and me

    ……………………………………………….
    Im not sure no
    But if we never try
    We’ll never know
    Its better to have loved
    Then not to loved at all
    Not trying is worse than to just stumble and fall
    And if we do
    i’d rather it be with you
    Cause at least there will be sweet memories”

    see the problem is that when we are in love we just see a one sided perception-life with that person. the thought of a breakup is not even worth mentioning because we are afraid.
    i love this song i hope you will too

    another HEALTHY one is “be happy” by mary j blidge (1990s)

    “how can i love somebody else
    when i cant love myself enough to know
    when its time; time to let go….”

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    • Posted by: Homepage
    • on April 20th, 2009 at 4:25 am

    Click here….

    Nice site. Check out this one sometime……

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    Absolute best song for any girl who was with a guy who did nothing but take from you, your heart, and your soul…

    One – u2

    Is it getting better?
    Or do you feel the same?
    Will it make it easier on you now
    that you got someone to blame

    You say one love, one life
    Its the one you need in the night

    Yeah, one love
    We get to share it
    Leaves you babe if you dont care for it

    Did i disapoint you?
    Leave a bad taste in your mouth?
    You act like you never had love
    And you want me to go without

    Well its too late tonight,
    to drag the past out into the light
    We’re one, but were not the same
    We got to carry each other, carry each other
    One

    Have you come here for forgiveness?
    Have you come to raise the dead?
    Have you come here to play Jesus?
    To the leopards in your head..

    Did i ask too much?
    More than alot?
    You gave nothing now its all i got

    We’re one, but we’re not the same
    We’ll hurt each, and do it again
    And you say
    Love is a temple,
    Love, the higher law
    Love is a temple
    Love, the higher law

    You ask me to enter
    And then you make me crawl
    And i cant keep holding on to what you got
    When all you got is hurt…

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    • Posted by: mannyack
    • on May 17th, 2009 at 4:28 am

    Ok i have the one that will help you finally make that move outta the pain you might have to cry it out but here are the lyrics to ( I recommend the Avril because shes the original owner and the power of this song and the emotion is all hers)

    Avril Lavigne – Falling into history

    Don’t matter what people say
    I never did believe them
    I know, I know they know everything
    I’ll be alright by myself
    And no one’s gonna tell me I’m defined
    Confined by love

    Now our days seem strange
    I guess my heart was bound to change

    I fell out, out of you and me
    You’re fading from view
    And you’re falling into history
    I fell out, out of you and me
    You’re fading from view
    And you’re falling into history

    I never thought that I’d say
    That I don’t really miss you
    I lived, I breathed your breath through me
    Time has a way of passing by
    Until I don’t remember why or how to hurt for you

    Love’s pain has gone somewhere
    And I’m finally hanging it there

    I fell out, out of you and me
    You’re fading from view
    And you’re falling into history
    I fell out, out of you and me
    You’re fading from view
    And you’re falling into history

    Falling into, falling into, you’re falling into history, yeah
    Falling into, falling into, you’re falling into history

    I fell out, out of you and me
    You’re fading from view
    And you’re falling into history
    I fell out, out of you and me
    You’re fading from view
    And you’re falling into history

    I’ll be alright by myself
    And no one’s gonna tell me I’m defined
    Confined by love

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    • Posted by: gabby
    • on June 4th, 2009 at 10:04 pm

    those are amazing songs and great for a break up.. but two songs i had that were big for my really bad break up were Let U Go by Ashley Parker Angel… it just fit perfectly with what we were going through.. and Never Again by Kelly Clarkson.. that was my angry song that i blasted and sang at the top of my lungs. haha. but yeah.. i’ll post the lyrics too.

    Let U Go lyrics

    Broken promises
    But you don’t really mind
    It’s not the first time
    And you know it, don’t you know
    Tell me why it is you only smile inside
    But when you break me into nothing
    Don’t you know

    It’s not like I haven’t tried
    Over and over again
    Stupid fights
    Wrong or right
    Goodbye…

    [Chorus:]
    I Remember when you came with me that night
    We said forever, that that you would never let me go
    But here I am again
    With nothing left inside
    No I don’t wanna but I gotta let you go

    You’re the one mistake
    I really didn’t mind
    So beautiful, unmercifully
    It took me down
    Too little and too late
    So now I know your kind
    You fake it easy, just to please me
    Don’t you know

    It’s not like we haven’t tried
    Over and over again
    Sleepless nights wrong or right
    Goodbye…

    [Chorus:]
    (slows down)

    I gotta let u go…
    It’s you…
    Theres nothing I can do

    I remember when you came with me that night
    You said forever [3x]

    Here I am again
    With nothing left inside
    No I don’t wanna but I gotta
    Let U Go

    [Chorus:]

    ——————————————–

    Never Again lyrics

    I hope the ring you gave to her
    Turns her finger green
    I hope when you’re in bed with her
    You think of me

    I would never wish bad things
    But I don’t wish you well
    Could you tell
    By the flames that burned your words?

    I never read your letter
    ‘Cause I knew what you’d say
    Give me that Sunday school answer
    Try and make it all okay

    Does it hurt
    To know I’ll never be there?
    Bet it sucks
    To see my face everywhere

    It was you
    Who chose to end it like you did
    I was the last to know

    You knew
    Exactly what you would do
    Don’t say
    You simply lost your way

    She may believe you
    But I never will
    Never again

    If she really knows the truth
    She deserves you
    A trophy wife, oh how cute

    Ignorance is bliss
    But when your day comes
    And he’s through with you
    And he’ll be through with you
    You’ll die together but alone

    You wrote me in a letter
    You couldn’t say it right to my face
    Well give me that Sunday school answer
    Repent yourself away

    Does it hurt
    To know I’ll never be there?
    Bet it sucks
    To see my face everywhere

    It was you
    Who chose to end it like you did
    I was the last to know

    You knew
    Exactly what you would do
    And don’t say
    You simply lost your way

    They may believe you
    But I never will
    Never again

    Never again will I hear you
    Never again will I miss you
    Never again will I fall to you
    Never

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    • Posted by: Talliejj
    • on June 22nd, 2009 at 10:10 am

    My alltime favorite break up- songs are:

    Alanis Morissette – Uninvited
    Alanis Morissette – You oughta know<<<
    Addictive feat. Rakim – Truth Hurts
    Moby – Disco Lies<<
    Incubus – Have you ever
    Nirvana – Heart Shaped Box<<
    Barbara Streisand – Left in the dark <<<<
    Meat Loaf – Left in the dark
    Anouk – Nobody’s Wife<<
    Anouk – r u kiddin me
    Limp Bizkit – My Way<
    Beyonce ft. Shakira – Beautifull Liar
    Beyonce – Ring the Alarm
    Beyonce – Irreplaceble
    Beyonce – Broken hearted girl
    Justin Timberlake – what goes around, comes around
    Rage against the machine – Killing in the name
    The Prodigy – No Good<<
    No Doubt – Ex-Girlfriend
    Evanescence – Call me when your sober
    Evanescence – My Immortal
    All Saints – Never Ever
    All Saints – Bootie Call
    Kelly Clarkson – Since uve been gone
    Linkin Park – By Myself
    Linkin Park – Don’t Stay <<
    Linkin Park – Forgotten
    David Guetta – Love is gone
    Skunk Anansie – Weak <<<
    Skunk Anansie – Hedonism <<
    Kurupt – Its Over
    Flashdance – Deep Dish <<<
    Kelis- Caught Out There
    Eminem – Kim <<<
    Eminem – Kill you
    TLC – Scrubs
    Rave Nation – Going Crazy
    20 fingers – short dick man <<<
    Crazy Town – Drowning
    Lenny Kravitz – American Woman
    Shakira – illegal

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    Alkaline trio- Stupid Kid

    “Remember when i said i loved you well…I take it back,
    I was just a stupid kid back then,
    I take back every word that i said”

    Kinda says it all!!!!

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    forget you–LAX
    best days of your life–kellie pickler (whole song amazing)
    you’re not sorry–taylor swift
    goodbye–kristinia debarge
    you’ll only make it worse–new years day (whole song amazing)
    forever and always–taylor swift

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    • Posted by: meccablong
    • on August 26th, 2009 at 11:17 am

    OK what happened to Melissa Etheridge- “Somebody Bring me Some Water”? That’s a good one. Also Alannis Morrisette- “You Oughta Know”!

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    I Won’t Apologize- Selena Gomez

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    • Posted by: mandz21
    • on November 30th, 2009 at 4:33 pm

    It’s Alright, It’s Okay – Ashley Tisdale
    I Can Do Better – Avril Lavigne
    Who’s Got Your Money – Tina Parol
    Picture to Burn – Taylor Swift
    Without You – Hinder
    Shattered Glass – Britney Spears
    In Repair – John Mayer
    Silly Boy – Rihanna and Lady GaGa
    It Takes More – Jordin Sparks
    Strange – Reba McEntire
    Hush Hush – Pussycat Dolls
    Red High Heels – Kellie Pickler
    Hate (I Really Don’t Like You) – Plain White T’s
    One Day You Will – Lady Antebellum
    Hey – Mitchel Musso
    Cry Me A River – Michael Buble
    White Liar – Miranda Lambert

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    • Posted by: ash
    • on December 1st, 2009 at 3:03 am

    One of my favourite songs and perfect when your mad at someone:

    U+ur hand by P!nk
    Here’s some lyrics:

    Check it out, going out on the late night
    Looking tight, feeling nice, it’s a cock fight
    I can tell i just know that it’s going down, tonight

    At the door we don’t wait ’cause we know them
    At the bar, six shots just beginning
    That’s when dickhead puts his hand on me, but you see

    I’m not here for your entertainment
    You don’t really want to mess with me tonight
    Just stop and take a second
    I was fine before you walked into my life

    ‘Cause you know it’s over
    Before it began
    Kepp your drink just give me the money
    It’s just u + ur hand tonight.

    Pink just rocks. Her songs are like therapy.

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    • Posted by: khanlin
    • on December 2nd, 2009 at 10:25 pm

    “SINGLE AGAIN” by Trina she kills it and i love how she’s not talking about how much he hurt her but how she’s so real with it. she doesnt need him. she can get whoever she wants!!!!

    You know how they do, how they act
    See you with another man and they want you back
    My ass still fat
    they still checking for me,
    and never will you find another bitch like me,
    and I don’t care what yourfriends say
    what we had was like Jay and Beyonce.
    Or was it all a dream.

    Let’s agree to disagree, don’t explain shit to me
    I got my own money, there’s nobody I need I need I need my own space

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    • Posted by: Myronisa
    • on January 31st, 2010 at 8:48 am

    Kinda going through this problem now myself.

    Strangely enough musicals are keeping me happy. Particularly the re-made Hairspray songs, which are bubbly and happy.

    Hairspray – You Can’t Stop The Beat.

    Madonna – Hung Up: helps too

    Here: an extract of which is helping me atm.

    Every little thing that you say or do
    I’m hung up
    I’m hung up on you
    Waiting for your call
    baby night and day
    I’m fed up
    I’m tired of waiting on you

    Ring, ring, ring goes the telephone
    The lights are on but there’s no-one home
    Tick tick tock it’s a quarter to two
    And I’m done
    I’m hangin’ up on you

    I can’t keep on waiting for you
    I know that you’re still hesitating
    Don’t cry for me
    ’cause I’ll find my way
    You’ll wake up one day
    But it’ll be too late.

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    try i look so good without you by jesse james…the best breakup song!!

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