
Just broke up with that loser/bastard/(place the jerk description word of choice here) ex-boyfriend of yours? It’s time to vent out your anger and get over how he wronged you. Forget all the sad, lovey dovey, and mushy I miss you songs.
Pop these women empowering songs into your favorite player and rock to being strong and independent.
#10 - My Happy Ending by Avril Lavigne
[audio:http://s15082.gridserver.com/empowerment/my_happy_ending.mp3]
Favorite Lines:
You’ve got your dumb friends
I know what they say
They tell you I’m difficult
But so are they
But they don’t know me
Do they even know you?
All the things you hide from me
All the shit that you do
#9 - Don’t Bother by Shakira
[audio:http://s15082.gridserver.com/empowerment/dont_bother.mp3]
Favorite Lines:
So don’t bother
I won’t die of deception
I promise you won’t ever see me cry
Don’t feel sorry
#8 - Get Out (Leave) - JoJo
[audio:http://s15082.gridserver.com/empowerment/get_out.mp3]
Favorite Lines:
Get Out (leave) right now,
it’s the end of you and me,
It’s too late (now) and I cant wait for you to be gone,
cause I know about her, (who) and I wonder (why),
how I bought all the lies.
You said that you would treat me right
but you was just a waste of time. (waste of time)
#7 - Ain’t It Funny - Jennifer Lopez
[audio:http://s15082.gridserver.com/empowerment/aint_it_funny.mp3]
Favorite Lines:
It’s been awhile since you came around
Now ya wanna see what’s goin’ down
Tryin’ to tell me why ya want my time
Tryin’ to tell me how I’m on your mind
See it never had to be this way
You should of never played the games you played
Now I’m seein’ that you’re kinda lame
Knowin how the situation change
#6 - Not Goin’ Cry - Mary J. Blige
[audio:http://s15082.gridserver.com/empowerment/not_goin_cry.mp3]
Favorite Lines:
I was your lover and your secretary
Working every day of the week
Was at the job when no one else was there
Helping you get on your feet
Eleven years of sacrifice
And you can leave at the drop of a dime
Swallowed my fears, stood by your side
I shoulda left your ass a thousand times
#5 - Over It - Katharine McPhee
[audio:http://s15082.gridserver.com/empowerment/over_it.mp3]
Favorite Lines:
Movin’ on, it’s my time
You never were a friend of mine
Hurt at first, a little bit
But now I’m so over
So over it
I’m so over it
#4 - Survivor - Destiny’s Child
[audio:http://s15082.gridserver.com/empowerment/survivor.mp3]
Favorite Lines:
Thought I couldn’t breathe without you,
I’m inhalin’
You thought I couldn’t see without you,
Perfect vision,
You thought I couldn’t last without ya,
But I’m lastin’
You thought that I would die without ya,
But I’m livin’
Thought that I would fail without ya,
But I’m on top,
Though it would be over by now,
But it won’t stop,
You thought that I would self-destruct,
But I’m still here,
Even in my years to come,
I’m still gon’ be here.
#3 - Irreplaceable - Beyonce
[audio:http://s15082.gridserver.com/empowerment/irreplaceable.mp3]
Favorite Lines:
So since I�m not your everything
How about I’ll be nothing
Nothing at all to you
Baby I wont shead a tear for you
I won’t lose a wink of sleep
Cause the truth of the matter is
Replacing you is so easy
#2 - Since U Been Gone - Kelly Clarkson
[audio:http://s15082.gridserver.com/empowerment/since_u_been_gone.mp3]
Favorite Lines:
You had your chance, you blew it
Out of sight, out of mind
Shut your mouth, I just can’t take it
Again and again and again and again
But since you been gone
I can breathe for the first time
I’m so movin’ on, yeah, yeah
Thanks to you, now I get, I get what I want
Since you been gone
#1 - I Will Survive - Gloria Gaynor
[audio:http://s15082.gridserver.com/empowerment/i_will_survive.mp3]
Favorite Lines:
Go on now go walk out the door
just turn around now
’cause you’re not welcome anymore
weren’t you the one who tried to hurt me with goodbye
you think I’d crumble
you think I’d lay down and die
Oh no, not I
I will survive
Did I miss any of your favorite songs to get over that loser? If so, let me know!
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Posted by BEAUTYY
Try:
Fefe Dobson - Bye Bye Boyfriend
“It was fun but it couldn’t last forever
Bye Bye pretty boy,friend
it’s time to pack it up
Baby ’cause it’s over now
”
Carrie Underwood - Before He Cheats
” dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seats.
I took a louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires.
maybe next time he’ll think before he cheats.”Oh heck, Willa Ford - A Toast to Men (Best man hater song ever)
“It was fun but it couldn’t last forever
Bye Bye pretty boy,friend
it’s time to pack it up
Baby ’cause it’s over now”Yes, I’ve had my troubles with men T.T
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Posted by yume
Great list of songs! I’m gonna send this over to my girl friend who just broke up with some guy that cheated on her. :(
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Posted by sirbutterroll
no Ben Folds Five - Song For The Dumped?
Give me my money back,
Give me my money back,
You bitch! -
Posted by AllaN
Very nice list hahaahaha, im glad Gloria Gaynor’s I Will Survive was included, makes the list seem more mixed
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Posted by niivek
trust company - stronger
hahaha, not a break up song but good song none the less :D
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Posted by duperpok
I had a friend call to tell of her breakup with a boyfriend an hour ago. What a coincidence.. Not sure if I should tell her about the songs though. Some girls get mad, others despair and break down.
If I may, “You’ve got a friend” by James Taylor probably is a helpful song in these testing times.
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Posted by razi
Since u been gone is perfect when you want to just shout your frustrations! Trust me I know… When my sister broke up with her bf, she couldn’t stop blasting that song!!! :D
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Posted by David
I’m pretty down with the fact that Kineda could have more top-10 list, good to see where all the good taste in music comes from. :)
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Posted by obiswill
Song number six has wrong title and singer. Title song is Don’t Speak - by No Doubt. ;) MJB is more mellow.
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Posted by AnotherName4me
“Gone Forever” by Three Days Grace
I don’t care if it was written by guys… it’s in my opinion, one of the best songs to get over anyone.. guy or girl… great lyrics“I feel so much better
Now that you’re gone forever
I tell myself that i don’t miss you at all
I’m not lying, denying that i feel so much better
Now that you’re gone forever”“First time you screamed at me
I should have made you leave
I should have known it could be so much better
I hope you’re missing me
I hope I’ve made you see
That I’m gone forever”omg it’s such a good song! takes away all heartache and frustrations.
and then another… not as good… but still good
“Never Again” by Kelly Clarkson
“Does it hurt
to know I’ll never be there
Bet it sucks
to see my face everywhere
It was you
who chose to end it like you did
I was the last to know
you knew
exactly what you would do
And don’t say
you simply lost your way
She may believe you
but I never will
never again”ahhh now the list is perfect =)
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Posted by zzoomgirl
This is an oldy but this one has given me great inspiration to keep going.
Time for me to fly REO Speedwagon
I’ve been around for you
I’ve been up and down for you
But I just gan’t get any relief
I’ve swallowed my pride for you
Buy you still make me feel like a thiefYou go me stealin’ your love away
‘Cause you never give it
Peeling the years away
And we can’t relive it
Oh I make you live
And you make me cry
I believe it’s time for me to fly -
Posted by mandiicandii
Try the song As If by Blaque. It is an amazing songs for getting over the guy that broke your heart.
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Posted by jmopikokew
What about the song…….”there you go” by PINK!
Please dont come around
Talkin bout that you love me
cause you loved those b****s before me
I dont wanna hear that you adore me
And I know that all youre doin
Is playin your mind games
Dont you know that game beats game
So your best bet is to be straight wit meSo you say you wanna talk, lets talk
If you wont talk, Ill walk
Yeah its like that
I got a new man, hes waitin out back
Now what do you think about that
And when I say Im through, Im through
So basically Im through wit you
Whatcha wanna say?
Had to have it your way, had to play games
Now youre beggin me to stayNow this is a awesome song for all those mind game players….. like there is more f***ing fish in the sea man, life goes on!!!
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Posted by madiandcliff
amazing son list.
jordyn taylor- stong is another good one.
“Ohh i dont need you anymore;
and don’t you know, thatYou, were the one that made me strong;
you made me stand up on my own,
with every cruel intention, you helped me find my
independence.yeah it’s all because of you,
that i have the strength i do,
to turn my pain to passion, instead of crashin’.
Boy i’m thankin’ you. Boy i’m thankin’ you.Thinking back on how you changed me,
everytime, you tried to put me down.
even though you really hurt me,
underneath, myself is what i found.
so take a look inside these eyes now,
and say the things you want to say to me.
cuz i’ve already spread my wings out;
and your the one, the one who set me free.” -
Posted by Lizza
Leave- Matchbox Twenty
Yes they maybe a little lame but good sond to get you very depressed.
Im not saying there wasnt nothing wrong
I just didnt think youd ever get tired of me
Im now saying we ever had the right to hold on
I just didnt wanna let it get away from meBut if thats how its gonna leave
Straight out from underneath
Then well see whos sorry now
If thats how its gonna stand, when
You know youve been depending on
The one youre leaving now
The one youre leaving out -
Posted by vesnicka
You have to add “Fighter” by Christina Aguliera because it’s about liers and loosers in general not just cheaters since not all break ups are due to cheating.
After all of the fights and the lies
Yes you wanted to harm me but that won’t work anymore
Uh, no more, oh no, it’s over
‘Cause if it wasn’t for all of your torture
I wouldn’t know how to be this way now, and never back down
So I wanna say thank you‘Cause it makes me that much stronger
Makes me work a little bit harder
Makes me that much wiser
So thanks for making me a fighter
Made me learn a little bit faster
Made my skin a little bit thicker
It makes me that much smarter
So thanks for making me a fighterAlso “Me, myself and I” by Beyonce
ME, MYSELF AND I
THATS ALL I GOT IN THE END
THATS WHAT I FOUND OUT
AND IT AINT NO NEED TO CRY
I TOOK A VOW THAT FROM NOW ON
I’M GON’NA BE MY OWN BEST FRIENDI GOT ME, MYSELF AND I
I KNOW THAT I WILL NEVER DISAPOINT MYSELF
My eyes HAVE CRIED A THOUSAND TIMES
ALL THE LADIES IF YOU FEEL ME HELP ME SING IT OUT
I CAN’T REGRET TIME SPENT WITH YOU
YEAH YOU HURT ME BUT I LEARNED A LOT ALONG THE WAY
IT’S HOW I LEARNED TO MAKE IT THROUGH
AFTER ALL THE RAIN YOU SEE THE SUN COME OUT AGAINGreat songs
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